The reason why people are different from animals lies in their essential attribute-sociality. In the process of socialization, a normal social member will constantly demand, restrain and supervise himself with social norms, morality and discipline, so that his words and deeds can meet the requirements of society and be recognized by society. Therefore, the problem of heterosexual communication can not be based on temporary emotional impulse, but should be covered with social veil to regulate.
The proposal of puppy love is measured according to the degree of self-reliance in personal life and the difference from the legal minimum age for marriage. In this sense, all middle school students' "love" belongs to puppy love.
At first, their "love" for the opposite sex is often extensive, almost to all the opposite sex of the same age. Boys take the initiative to talk to girls and like to show their talents in front of girls in order to win the favor of women; Girls pay attention to their appearance modification, take the initiative to help the opposite sex or seek the help of the opposite sex, sometimes they are melodramatic or even pretend to avoid it, but more often they silently pay attention to the behavior, words and deeds of the opposite sex.
With the communication between men and women and the further development of adolescent sexual consciousness, their love for the opposite sex gradually tends to be single-minded, from a general affection for the opposite sex to the pursuit of a specific opposite sex. Most men pursue beautiful girls; Girls are mostly brave, strong and talented boys. Once selected, there will be strong emotions. Driven by this kind of emotion, they will look for various opportunities to convey their emotional information to each other, or be affectionate, or boldly pour out, or convey their feelings, and even deliberately embarrass each other to achieve their goals. If the two sides love each other for a long time, then under certain conditions, puppy love will happen.