A child asked his mother what "socializing" meant, and her mother explained: I don't want to do it, but I dare not do what I should do. The child went to school the next day and said, "Mom, I went to socialize." -This is a story told by netizens. Yesterday, a reader called the hotline of the Morning Post and said, "Nowadays, children have a very sweet mouth, and sometimes they can talk better than adults." Her talking nephew also caused a "war at home" at home.
Parents who have an "apple polisher" at home are worried.
"Hey, the child's problem has caused a' war at home'." Wang Feili, 27, called the hotline and said that her sister's son Xiaoyu is 8 years old and the whole family loves him very much. "Little Emperor, you have whatever you want." Wang Feili said, Xiaoyu looks dignified and strong. He is a class cadre. The most special thing is that his mouth is very sweet. When I meet my neighbors, my mother-in-law Li and uncle Wang are always very nice and make everyone happy.
Wang Feili once went home on annual leave to attend her sister's parent-teacher conference. She heard Xiaoyu praise a little girl: "Your skirt looks good ..." Wang Feili asked Xiaoyu: "Do you often praise that female classmate?" Xiaoyu replied, "She votes for me every time she chooses a class cadre."
At the end of one year, a relative came to his neighbor's house across the street. I heard that he is a TV host in a city. When the two families met in the elevator, Xiaoyu suddenly said to the host, "Uncle, your temperament is really like a star. What a shame. You should be a star. " It made the host laugh: "Alas, your doll's mouth is so sweet."
Until one day, my sister and her husband got a call from teacher Xiaoyu and asked them to talk. The teacher found Xiaoyu like to "kiss up". "Xiaoyu has the habit of lying. He always feels that if he talks well with others and others are happy, he can get what he wants. " The teacher said.
"When they got home, they had a big fight about it. When they calmed down, they expressed concern about Xiaoyu's situation. Now they don't know how to educate. " Wang Xiaoli said.
Too much entertainment on holidays makes children precocious.
Parenting education, "I don't know where I learned it when I took my children out for dinner …" is in an online survey project jointly launched by Morning Post and Dacheng. 37% of netizens think that children are mature and sociable. "Adults say it is really a surprise! I really don't know whether to be sad or happy. " "Don't blame children who know how to socialize. Look at their state and you will know why they are precocious. " One parent wrote: "Take my daughter as an example, Children's Day is coming, and she has a lot of' entertainment'!" The netizen said that on Children's Day, her daughter will perform at school in the morning, and in the afternoon, she will go to her unit to receive gifts and perform cultural programs with her colleagues' children. You can't be idle at night. The school specially issued tickets to the park, requiring children to participate in garden activities accompanied by their parents. "It happened to be Children's Day, and the itinerary was full. My daughter is only in the first grade. She is exposed to so much' entertainment', how can she not be precocious? " This parent's words resonated with many netizens. They believe that on Children's Day, schools and parents always organize various activities for children to compete for talents. This is a good starting point, but it makes many children feel flustered. "If you want your child to return to innocence, you should return the holiday time to your child. Don't let them be busy with all kinds of entertainment before entering the society. "