Children nowadays don't respect their parents and teachers. What is wrong with our education? Today, a boy of 13 years old came to the office. He said he was big or small, and the size was 1.7 meters. He looks like an adult, and his father is a little shorter than the child, so his mother is more petite, just like a middle school student. The boy quarrels with everyone at home, especially because he doesn't respect his mother's psychological state. By the way, he can speak more than a dozen words, which is even worse for his parents. In his fucking words, "except that he didn't fight with his father, nothing else was noisy, but fighting!" "

On campus, the teacher's reaction is that the child's emotional control is not good, he loses his temper and is more willful. He has his own ideas and likes to pout with the teacher! This kind of child is not a case. Why do children nowadays disrespect their parents and despise their teachers? Parents don't respect teachers, don't respect the elderly and despise each other, which is the best example for children. When children don't respect the elderly. When we despise teachers, we should first think about our behavior in daily life.

Once I saw a family, the old lady was extremely dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law, and they often had some contradictions. And their contradictions are all told to children. When grandma looks after the children, she will say, "Your mother has never been to school, her ability is too poor, she earns less money and has a bad temper. Don't be like her when you grow up! " When the mother looked after the child, the mother said to the child, "Your grandmother's influence is not good for me."

The child was sandwiched between his mother and grandmother, and he was at a loss. When the child grew up, she ignored her grandmother and mother. She can even use the contradiction between grandma and mom to get what he likes. The same is true between husband and wife. In daily life, if both husband and wife don't understand each other and don't protect each other's self-esteem, then children will have no respect for their parents when they see that both husband and wife are destroying each other.

Children's disrespect for teachers usually comes from parents' discussion and evaluation of teachers at home. Some parents may have seen too much about the present situation and told their children too much, such as a teacher giving gifts, or wanting to give gifts to teachers during the Chinese New Year holidays, and feel that there is something wrong with teachers' morality and style. When parents often give negative feedback to teachers in front of their children, even if they are not evaluating their teachers, children lack respect for the profession of teachers!

We should maintain the prestige of the elderly and teachers in front of the children and get their respect. First of all, everyone should be old people and respect teachers. If there are contradictions, everyone should try to avoid children's discussion. The younger the child, the less discriminating he is. Usually he cares about what his parents say, so when he sees the communication between his parents and his family. He will think that this kind of play is correct, and naturally he will lack respect for the parents and teachers of the elderly.