Educating children is the same sentence. "Suitable for everyone." Different children use different methods. For children who are difficult to manage, it is necessary to see the situation clearly and from what aspects it is difficult to manage. Find the right target and educate with the right method. The school is based on teaching and educating people, and children's poor study is directly related to their living environment, so there is a saying that "those who are close to ink are black, and those who are close to ink are black". The living environment of family and school can directly lead to children's psychology. Parents are advised to communicate with their children irregularly, and pay attention to time and children's mood when communicating. When children are found to have problems, they should be corrected in time, and there should be a transition period for finding and solving problems, especially for children in the rebellious period of youth. Regarding the necessity of punishment in education, I focus on not punishing. If children don't want to learn, forced punishment will be counterproductive. As parents, we should pay attention to our children's usual words and deeds and find out whether they have psychological problems. For American law, it seems that "parents can't just beat and scold or punish their children." If they break the law, they will be arrested. " New york Weekly once mentioned that "it is a mental illness for children not to listen to their parents, so they should see a psychologist in time." Punishment can be replaced in another way. Instead of punishing children for too much homework or going to cram schools, it is better to let children change their learning methods.