Secondly, you are really not smart. The performance is: lack of understanding of this ecological environment. Always calculated by colleagues, maybe not one or two people. It may be that many people have done it many times, indicating that the construction of corporate culture is not good enough and the micro-environment has deteriorated;
Second, you can always be calculated by your colleagues, which proves two points. It is to prove that you are not good at learning lessons, you can fall into the "pit" many times without regret, and you really have a chance to start;
Finally, get rid of shortcomings and strengthen yourself. There are two ways to be strong: addition and subtraction. The so-called addition is to improve the quality-that is, through their own efforts to influence the improvement of the environment, establish a benign interpersonal relationship, and no longer become the object of calculation; The so-called subtraction is to abandon the "stupid" elements, learn lessons, plug loopholes, and put an end to the opportunities for others to start.
Like the cat and bird in the picture. Birds don't always ask me if I'm a fool. It's safer to fly away than to discuss how to choose. what do you think?
Hello, everyone, today I want to talk to you about what to do if you are always being calculated at work!
I am also a person who just joined the work. I am stupid and honest. Others say that fools are blessed with stupidity. People who think about the company are enthusiastic people and will not calculate others. I think as long as I help them enthusiastically, keep a low profile a little, read more and study less, I won't be counted. As a result, I found that I was wrong, all wet, and sometimes it wasn't my fault or my responsibility. You don't talk to me in a good tone, but I'm new here after all, and I'm embarrassed to bring it up. I'm afraid that my relationship with them will be affected. I won't get any benefits from quarreling with them, and I will only leave a bad impression between the leaders and other employees.
This society really makes me speechless. I am also a new employee, so I work really hard and want to leave the best impression on my boss and colleagues. Dream of working with Murong Rong, and don't care about anything. Sometimes you lose money and don't complain. However, it seems to be getting worse and worse. I can't lose my temper, I can only swallow it silently with my teeth every time, and then I will have a hypocritical and friendly smile when I meet you next time!
Brothers and sisters, be patient. In fact, I can only blame myself for not being strong enough. Now we have to put up with it. Work is hard-won, so you can't give it up easily. It's time to experience the ups and downs of life. But you must be careful when you get along with people. No one around us is reliable, only strong. They will change their minds and make you happy every day.
That's what the workplace is like. As the saying goes, "the workplace is like a battlefield", only you should be careful. If you have proof,
Then, you can point it out directly. If you have no proof, you will suffer.
Nothing is absolute. Now my colleagues are actually very friendly, not everyone is like the little people I met. I hope the answer can help everyone, thank you for your attention!
Struggle is all about profit.
You are likely to hurt the interests of others invisibly.
Don't think that working silently every day won't offend people.
Think about it. If a newcomer works hard and has a successful career, the boss appreciates him and often praises you and scolds other colleagues in front of everyone, then he may offend the villain. Some little people feel that they used to be very comfortable at work, and their salary is not high, so they are uncomfortable. As a result, you came, and they broke the situation. Of course, people quit. They must try to get rid of you. If you don't run away, at least put a black image on your boss's mind. This is not only a despicable act to safeguard one's own interests, but also a despicable act out of revenge.
Therefore, in the workplace, improvisation is also a way to survive. People don't attack me, I don't attack. If someone attacks me, be careful.
Colleagues around them suddenly changed their attitude towards themselves, alienated, avoided and even talked behind their backs. Colleagues who are usually close to you also avoid you. At this time, you should consciously think about what is going on. Did someone stab you in the back on purpose? Someone deliberately created a public opinion attack to hurt you?
At this time, you must not be confused, find out the reason and the initiator of stabbing yourself in the back, and wash your face quickly.
There are not many such opportunities. Learning can make progress. Steady mentality, fine products.
It is also possible for people to be bullied ~ but what does it mean to be counted? If it is really someone else's heart, just ignore it ~ Only kindness is priceless. It is really smart to see through the world and still love it.
Not stupid. After mature growth and exercise, but be sober when things happen, and don't be used by bad people!
Very good, colleagues help you eliminate disasters, let you experience, and let you see good and bad. He knew it was time.
There are probably a few problems in this. The first shows that the management of this unit is not good, the unit is chaotic, and the old people are also calculating each other. Second, the person who calculated you has a bad character. Third, there is something wrong with your emotional intelligence. Why is it always calculated by others?
Learn not to care, and do what you have to do well. If you care, you will lose more, and eventually you will be unhappy. What's the point?