Experience in raising children in large classes (1);

In a blink of an eye, Lulu is five years old and nine months old. She has been in school for three years, and she should go to primary school in another year. How to better make Lulu adapt to the future primary school life as soon as possible? Whether to stay in a private kindergarten or go to Tiantaigang kindergarten really worries our parents. Through the observation of the children's study and life in Tiantaigang Kindergarten for one month, we are very happy to choose Tiantaigang Kindergarten, and Lulu's learning and growth effect is immediate.

First, reshape the child's personality:

Every parent expects their children to be diligent and sunny. Lulu has always been a good girl. When she was in a private kindergarten, she made great progress in arithmetic, pinyin and English. However, Lulu was very stiff and insecure in kindergarten, and could not correctly express her preferences. Although we have communicated with the school in many ways and at many levels, Lulu's timid character has never been effectively improved. After entering Tiantaigang Kindergarten, Zou Yuan quietly asked and encouraged, which relieved the pressure of the new environment of Lulu New School. Teacher Zhang instructs children: when communicating with others, we should look at the other person's eyes and other details, so that children can gradually dare to communicate face to face with others. At the same time, Mr. Zhang and Mr. Tang also gave children more exercise opportunities in their daily study and life, such as assigning children as group leaders and small squad leaders, which not only enhanced their sense of honor, but also exercised their courage and cultivated their organizational and management potential. At the end of September, Lulu's idol, Sister Lu Xiao, came to the school to have close contact with everyone, which made the children feel that they had left Tiantaigang and Chongqing and were with children all over the country. After a short month's study and life, Lulu has become more lively, cheerful and bold than before.

Second, regulate children's behavior:

How to train Lulu into a healthy, intelligent and qualified "prospective pupil"? After entering Tiantaigang Kindergarten, the teacher guided Lulu one by one from the aspects of sitting posture, standing posture, raising hands, gathering and passing chairs. Only ask children according to the standards of primary school students, and at the same time cultivate Lulu's good study habits such as paying attention to lectures, not making small moves, not interrupting, and using her brain attentively. Carry out patriotic education for Lulu by attending the flag-raising ceremony of the school; By helping teachers to do hygiene and educating Lulu to get along well with children, Lulu can develop a good moral character of respecting teachers, respecting the elderly, loving the people and loving labor from an early age. In order to improve Lulu's self-reliance potential, the teacher asked the children to "do their own thing". After returning to China, she also cooperated with the school attentively, which changed the living habits of the whole family around Lulu, and Lulu's self-care potential was greatly improved. At present, Lulu has learned basic life skills such as dressing, washing, packing stationery, toys, washing dishes and sweeping the floor. After a month's study, Lulu has become more sensible and standardized than before. [Organized by www.duanmeiwen.com]

Third, cultivate children's interest in learning:

How to cultivate children's interest in learning is the most concerned issue for teachers and parents. Tiantaigang Primary School chose a set of teaching materials suitable for children's interests according to their characteristics. The material involves language, mathematics, pinyin, society, writing, music, art and other materials. Integrating the learned knowledge into children's daily life has greatly stimulated children's strong desire to explore nature. In learning, teachers give full play to their potential and expertise, and guide and inspire Lulu from many aspects. Lulu's Mandarin is more standard than before, and her painting is more imaginative. Chess has changed Lulu's way of thinking, especially the teacher's implementation of the "Little Red Flower" system among children, which has inspired children to strive for advanced learning enthusiasm ... The colorful learning life has made Lulu gradually fall in love with school.

Lulu caught a cold in early October. In the past, Lulu would not go to school on the grounds of "I am sick" and "I am not feeling well", but after this illness, Lulu insisted on attending classes and even rejected the idea of letting her go home to take medicine at noon. We are delighted to find that the school has a personality attraction and cohesion for Lulu. Every day after class, Lulu can finish her homework in time according to the teacher's requirements. Lu Jun's learning intention and initiative are stronger than before.

We are very grateful to the school and teachers for their hard work in cultivating Lulu, and we are also very grateful to them for creating an open and free learning environment for children, so that children can grow up lively, healthy and happy. In the future study, we will wholeheartedly cooperate with school education, improve Lu Jun's morality, intelligence, physique and aesthetics, and smoothly complete the normal transition from kindergarten to primary school.

Experience in raising children in large classes (2);

Parenting experience of parents in large classes

It is difficult to express clearly the education of parents to their children in words. To tell the truth, I am also a new mother, and I don't have much parenting experience. I can only say that I am still learning in the process of educating my children. I like reading parenting books at ordinary times, and ask if I don't understand. Often go to the parenting forum to discuss parenting topics or ask experienced mothers for parenting methods.

The following are some experiences I have had with my daughter in the past five years.

1, set an example and become a role model for children.

I think parents play an important role in the process of educating children. Because through his own observation, he can get what he can and can't do from his parents, and thus get the code of conduct. Therefore, as parents, we must always be strict with ourselves in our work and life, and set a good example for our children.

2. Ideological and moral education is the foundation.

I personally think that children should first learn to respect their parents and learn to be grateful. Every day I give my daughter a hug and say, I love you! In the evening, I will say: good night! When doing something wrong, parents and children need to have the courage to say: I'm sorry! When someone gives you something or helps you, you need to say: thank you! From an early age, we should educate him to be polite, honest, caring, not littering, paying attention to environmental protection and energy saving, often turning off the faucet and light switch in time, and caring for the disadvantaged groups. These are the keys to cultivate his public morality and compassion. Parents should give him support and praise, and let her know that kindness can make people happier.

3. Start with small things and cultivate good habits and the potential of independent living.

Habit is second nature. I need my children to learn from the little things around them and consciously make some agreements with them, such as letting her do something she can independently, helping me take out the garbage, handing paper towels, taking slippers and clothes; At the age of two, I have learned to eat by myself, wear pants and clothes, brush my teeth in the morning, wash my face, urinate and take a bath at night (of course, when the weather is fine); She never takes anything to eat without authorization. She always asks if she can eat first, and she can't take it until an adult agrees. How much you can eat needs to be limited, and I'll tell her why you want to limit him. I have never opposed her eating any snacks, but I will tell her that snacks are unhealthy food and you can't eat more. For example, French fries and biscuits are easy to get angry. If you eat them, you should drink more water. Eating too much sugar and chocolate will damage your teeth, so don't take more than two at a time and brush your teeth every day. Never picky about food, tell him that any food has its nutrition, and eat more fish and fruits and vegetables, so as to grow taller. When you go to school, you need to carry your own schoolbag and agree with her on the time, method and materials for watching TV. At the same time, you should tell him that his eyes will be tired from watching for too long, and he should rest, otherwise he will be nearsighted. In fact, the standard need not be too high, but it will be of great help to cultivate children's good habits. In many people's minds, children are often thought to be too young, clumsy, unable to do anything and unwilling to let them do it. This is not only not conducive to cultivating children's independent life potential when they grow up, but also will develop children's bad habits of laziness and dependence. (Insert another sentence there.

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4. Parents should recognize their children, encourage them more and criticize them less, and let them have a free space.

As a child, he cares about him the most and knows him better than his parents. Children are still children after all, and it is their nature to be curious and playful. As a parent, I will treat my child as a friend, communicate with him often, find his bright spot, praise him and give him careful guidance. Parents should be good at discovering the bright spots of their children. I heard a lecture in kindergarten before, and the lecturer at that time said: If you say he can do it, he can't. So we must firmly believe that our children are the best, and we can't just deny our children. Affirm him, encourage him, guide him, support him and give him confidence, which will help to enhance children's trust in their parents.

5. Let him enjoy a carefree childhood.

Playing is children's favorite activity, and it is also the best way of education we think. In the process of playing, they can not only have endless fun, but also learn all kinds of knowledge. Through games, they can also feel the joy of success and the distress of failure.

I never forced him to learn many words and recite many poems. Because I don't value how much cultural knowledge he can learn at the moment, I care more about his physical and mental health and let him know self-esteem, self-improvement and self-reliance. I expect my child to be a caring, tolerant and United child. You can take part in mass activities and play with children at ordinary times, so as to strengthen your social communication potential, psychological endurance potential and resilience in handling things from your usual communication and interaction. Can tell teachers their needs in time, and can speak boldly during recess. I think this moment is a crucial period for the formation of a child's personality, and it is very helpful to integrate into the masses to form his complete personality.

6. Cultivate his thirst for knowledge.

Children's curiosity and thirst for knowledge are very strong. They should ask everything clearly and touch it there. Sometimes electric sockets and gas switches are also the objects they explore. I usually let him try, but I will tell him that electricity and fire are dangerous and teach him how to unplug the electrical outlet. You can't just go into the kitchen, because there is fire, boiling water and knives in it, and only parents can go in. So he never plays unless I allow him to. 7. First of all, respect and trust children.

Treat her as an equal friend, always put yourself in each other's shoes and communicate with her as the protagonist. I am her occasionally, and she can also become a mother or a father or even a teacher to talk to us. Occasionally, you can squat down and talk to your child, making him feel that we are equal. In this way, parents will know more about their children's inner world.

8. Give your child a fixed time!

Every day LG and I will take some time to play games with him! Every night before going to bed, I will spend half an hour chatting with him, telling stories or singing children's songs! Try to make him feel the love of his parents.

Parenting is an arduous and complicated project, which requires not only financial resources but also energy and patience. But we can gain some happiness and sweetness in the process of studying with children, and at the same time we can get some thinking and enlightenment. In short, as long as our children make a little progress, we will be surprised, because it is the fruit of hard work of teachers and parents. Of course, my child is not a genius or perfect. She is still a little careless and works slowly. She doesn't like taking a nap. I also want to consult other parents to see if there are any good methods, because I haven't found the most effective one so far. We need to constantly explore better and more parenting methods, and hope that good parenting methods and good teachers are like a canoe, carrying children to an infinite ocean of knowledge, making them healthier and better!

Experience in raising children in large classes (3);

Parenting experience of parents in large classes

1, first of all, we must cultivate children's good sense of time. After school, parents can work out a timetable with their children to urge them to get up, go to bed and finish their homework on time. Let children gradually learn to consciously adjust their behavior under the constraints of time.

2. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility. Responsibility is a person's emotional expression of his words and deeds, and promises a serious and responsible attitude. It will become a stable personality and psychological quality for a long time, which can effectively improve children's learning intention; It is suggested to start with simple arrangement of toys and housework. Children should take the initiative to do it, and even send a message to praise or reward when they do well, so that children can feel proud and respected.

3. Exercise children's perseverance and will, and cultivate children's independence. Don't take too much care of children in daily life. When driving the brain, let the children think for themselves and let the children do what they can.

Lesson 4: Parenting experience of parents in large classes

From the moment I knew I had a baby, education became a top priority. After my parents' education, I witnessed the education of young parents around me. Through reading books and surfing the Internet, I actively learned how to "deal with" my children and learn the coup of education. Combined with the dribs and drabs that I grew up with my children for six years, I feel that if I want to educate my children well, I must be a wise mother.

Wisdom, my simple understanding is that as long as we use our brains and think of a good way. Sometimes, it may be just a look, a simple action, a sentence or a "premeditated" short play, so it makes our baby a good boy. Speaking of this, I think all mothers will think about how they use their brains and fight bravely when they get along with their children. I want to share some of my experiences with you there.

First, love children, but also love children with high quality.

"Parents' love is as deep as the sea, but there are quality differences. It is not the parents' education, income and status that determines the quality, but the level of understanding of children and the level of handling details. "-this is my favorite sentence. We all know that children's ideas are rich and children's minds are delicate. What I usually do is never pay attention to my child's thoughts, let myself think from her position, ask her advice, and not make decisions for her easily. Of course, when we educate our children, we will ask them what they should do and what they can't do, but sometimes children are just the opposite. From time to time, I will ask my child what she thinks, because I understand that every action of the child has an idea, and everything happens for a reason, so I will get to know her and help her analyze it, so that she can really understand why I ask her like that, so as to identify with me from the heart, instead of simply succumbing to adults.

Second, example is better than words. We are role models.

Everyone knows that parents are the best teachers for children, and we are role models for children. Simply put, if we ask our children to be polite, we must be polite to others; We let children get along with their partners, then we have to unite and be friendly; We want our children to study hard, like reading and watch less TV ... all these things must be done first. Children are simple, but they are not stupid. Our every move, every word and deed, is in the eyes of our children and in our hearts. Therefore, there are traces of us in his behavior, so parents, don't forget, the children are watching us.

Third, correctly guide children to fall in love with learning.

Everyone has told children that "learning is happy", but in their hearts, parents will think that "learning is a chore". So, what should we do? I don't think you can simply ask your child to study hard, study hard, or educate him with "happy learning" that he is not convinced of, but guide him to really love learning. In fact, learning itself is not happy, but enjoying the results after learning is happy. I told my children that there are many things to do in our life, and learning is just one of them. Just like eating and playing, it has a process from ignorance to understanding, but after mastering it, it will be happy. In addition, we must encourage and praise children's learning, and don't compare children with others. 100 is not required. For example, my daughter 10 is wrong six times, and I won't say, "How could she be so wrong?" And said: "These four questions are all right, great!" What about these six questions? If you take a good look, you can do it right. "At this time, the child will say," Why are you so wrong? I will do it well next time. "In fact, the scores are getting less and less, which is really like the truth. Sometimes when the children come home, the teacher still can't tell us the problem. At this time, I must be angry and want to lose my temper. Some parents will say, "What the teacher said in class, why don't you?"? You must not have listened carefully in class. " "Others can remember, but you can't. "Please don't say that. In fact, at this time, the child is also very anxious and guilty. Whatever the reason, he will be annoyed because he can't do the problem left by the teacher. This time, we are more

We can't learn this lesson. We should help them, but then we will understand what causes children to "learn". Maybe we listened to it in class, but forgot it, then we should help children remember it; Maybe it's just that we skipped the numbers in class and didn't listen, so we must tell our children that we should do the right thing at the right time. Let children realize how unworthy and uneconomical it is to feel sad because they are not serious in class and can't do their homework at home. Parents, if you find that your children's grades are lower and their studies are worse, please don't think it is a disaster, because we have just started, and our little actions will affect our children and help them learn simply and happily from now on.

All parents want to raise a good child. In fact, an excellent child must have sunshine in his heart, a happy life and skills in all aspects. I expect my daughter to be a simple and happy person, but simple happiness requires skill. I will accompany her with my wisdom, lead her and make her a happy, dedicated and excellent child in countless life experiences.