Tell her the reality of society directly. For men who want to keep working hard and women who want to support nothing, it is still a problem, or they say they don't object, but they can't drop out of school. If they don't give up, you have a reason. If they don't give up, they ask men to give her something to be happy. If men are unreasonable and enterprising, it will be easy. Hit them and throw them into the ditch.