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Extraction code: 1234 Title: Cai Lixu's speech on family education.
Author: Cai Lixu
Publication year: 20 1 1-3
Page number: 175
Content abstract: Cai Lixu's speech on family education (Selected Works of Cai Lixu) Content abstract: What is the motivation for children to study hard every day? If the motivation is "My parents work so hard, I must reassure them", then you can rest easy all your life. But if the child's original intention is "If I do well in the exam, my father will give me 50 yuan 100 yuan", you should worry. Don't be happy to see children working hard. Wrong, wrong in the end. How many people understand this truth?
The fastest time for a person to make progress is adversity, in which our potential and wisdom are displayed. With this attitude, you are not afraid of suffering, but know how to temper yourself and improve your realm. Prosperity is the easiest way to lose yourself, and all mistakes are often made in prosperity. Therefore, in the face of good times, we should always remind ourselves how many people have given me such a good time, and we should always be grateful and treat good times and bad times as teachers.
When you hear others slander you, don't be influenced and don't get angry. Moreover, the other party is also very empty and painful when slandering. So we want to return the merits to him and let this resentment slowly dissolve into invisibility. Therefore, be patient, and slander is like "light a fire and burn the air, and it will eventually stop." If you don't argue, you will win everyone's respect after the incident.
Without greed and tolerance, it is not easy to lose your temper. Children who know tolerance from an early age will get more love. For example, when a teacher sees some children who don't argue with others, he will take special care of them in private because the children are sensible. If children are not greedy, they will not be angry because "others have it, but I don't". Why do children lose their temper easily nowadays? He took it for granted because we had done so much for him. When we didn't do it well, his temper came at once.
About the author: Teacher Cai Lixu, born in Taiwan Province, China, 1973, member of international confucian association. Graduated from normal education and information major, worked as a primary school teacher, and engaged in children's classic teaching after school. In the process of teaching and learning, I think the education of saints is the primary education in society, so I resigned from my public office and went to Australia to study traditional culture, specializing in the study and promotion of China traditional culture for many years.
Since the end of 2003, he has been a lecturer at Haikou Xiaolian National Studies Enlightenment Center. Since then, he has given lectures to teachers, parents, students, business people and social groups (including universities and prisons). At the end of 2004, a 10-day "Happy Life Lecture" was held in Hong Kong, with the theme of virtue education, which was warmly affirmed.
From 2006 to 2008, Mr. Cai Lixu served as the dean and executive deputy director of Lujiang Chinese Culture and Education Center in Tangchi Town, and advocated showing the world what "real happiness in life" is based on Disciples' Rules. Since 2009, he has been a lecturer at Malaysian Chinese Culture and Education Center.
Teacher Cai Lixu has successfully held more than 300 lectures on traditional culture in many provinces and cities in China, as well as in Malaysia, Singapore, Indonesia and Australia, and the audience has benefited a lot. UNESCO has begun to translate his speech into six languages and recommend it to the whole world.