There are guests at home this afternoon. This is the first time for the three of them to come to our home. Later, I asked my mother-in-law to know that they were relatives of my father-in-law's brother-in-law, but they didn't say hello to us before they came. They will go home at about three o'clock. We were all taking a nap at that time. My mother-in-law took Dabao and shared a room with her sister-in-law. I share a room with Bauer. As soon as they arrived, they played games in the living room with a loud voice. My second treasure was woken up several times, so I endured sleepiness and continued to put him to sleep.
As a result, my mother-in-law, sister-in-law and Dabao woke up because of the loud noise in the living room. Mother-in-law saw guests coming, so she prepared melon and fruit tea for them. Bauer couldn't sleep well, so I took him to her mother-in-law's room (our room is opposite the living room, and the room where her mother-in-law sleeps is louder). As a result, Bauer fell asleep soon. Her sister-in-law turned on the TV and showed Dabao cartoons.
Before long, the little boy ran straight into the bedroom. He saw a TV he didn't like and asked his sister-in-law to change it for him. When her sister-in-law changed the TV, Dabao took the remote control away. As a result, the ten-year-old child directly grabbed the remote control from the two-year-old child. I can't help it. The new arrivals are guests. I gave him the remote control, and I watched TV according to him. However, my daughter doesn't like it. I thought Dabao hadn't eaten at noon, so I heated some rice in the kitchen and wanted to feed her. As a result, my daughter refused to eat, so she made a scene. To tell the truth, in fact, the TV sound is not small. The child directly said in a bad tone, "Keep your voice down and leave me alone." I was a little depressed, but I said in a good temper, "If you are afraid of noise, go and play in the living room."
After a while, the boy sat directly on the bed. A two-month-old baby and a thirteen-year-old girl (aunt) unconsciously sat directly on the bed. A few minutes later, they lay directly on the bed. You said all you had to do was lie in bed, and I'll admit it. The key is that he also pulled the quilt cover, which was covered by his sister-in-law and son. No male or female consciousness at all. Fortunately, my sister-in-law knows how to avoid suspicion and sits on the bedside table. It's time to squeeze the little master out of bed! As a result, the child was not satisfied, so he pulled the quilt all over himself, and the two-month-old baby was so naked on the mat! He lay comfortably beside watching TV.
Later, my daughter took the TV remote control in the drawer, turned off the TV at random, and threw her face directly. Playing in an empty room outside, he opened the door and went in. I said, are you really good at being so casual? What kind of child is this? Who can do this when going to someone's house for the first time?
A child will never be smart and sensible for no reason. Although their parents say "just let nature take its course without deliberate education", others can't see their silent efforts in children's habits, character and character. In the final analysis, how far children can go in the future, although more or less related to grades, related to parents' economic ability and family background, but more importantly.
Some parents don't want to take care of their children, perhaps because they are afraid that their children will be bullied in the future. But at least at an appropriate age, you should follow the most basic "don't disturb others" rule in your child's behavior. When you take your child out as a guest, remind him not to treat himself as an outsider too much, and remember that this is the guest's call. Such basic knowledge and the like must be taught to children.
Parents who don't want to take care of their children must know that if you take care of their children now, someone will take care of them for you in the future! This is by no means a threat, you know, people are divided into groups, and a person who doesn't know the rules grew up with his peers. What are the benefits of being with a group of people who don't know the rules?
(This article comes from: Baidu Baby knows () Xingyue)
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