2. Transfer children's interest. Adolescent children are full of energy and have great activity energy. Parents should not think that they can tie their hearts by studying all day. The task of parents is to enrich family life. Every weekend, arrange some interesting activities for the whole family to make children look forward to the weekend. In this way, children's attention and excitement can be transferred to healthy and beneficial activities, and they can find a place for their abundant energy.
3. Look at the problem from the child's perspective. Appropriately meet the wishes of girls. Girls' desire for independence can be realized in a harmonious atmosphere with the help of their parents. Parents should not only see the immature side of a girl, but also see her independent growth. Properly satisfying girls' desire for independence will improve girls' autonomy and self-confidence and help them grow up quickly.
4. Get off the shelf and be a "strategist" for girls' growth. Adolescent rebellious girls will inevitably have more resistance to their parents' authority. Therefore, when a girl is fighting for independence, her parents should not suppress her for various reasons, because it is easy to arouse her rebellious heart; On the contrary, take a step back, be a girl's "mentor" and help her make suggestions to realize her desire for independence. She will be grateful to you.
5. Listen more and talk less to help girls become independent as soon as possible. Respect is very important for the communication between parents and children, and listening is a kind of respect for children. This way is more conducive to equal communication with children and better understanding of children's voices, while preaching is often superficial and difficult to penetrate girls' hearts. The desire for independence represents the enhancement of girls' independent consciousness. Parents should learn more about girls' independent consciousness through effective listening, so as to give girls more effective guidance.
6. Mothers should change their upbringing and adopt a tolerant attitude towards their daughters' education. Don't think that your daughter can say whatever she wants, but respect your child's psychological feelings and provide services according to his psychological wishes.
7. Father education should be put in place, and the role consciousness and sense of responsibility of family education should be enhanced. At this stage, the child's nagging to his mother has been in a period of collapse, and he is upset when he hears that his mother has not spoken, even if he is right, he will not listen at all. At this time, the father will catch up and set an example for his daughter's study and growth.
8. Take her out to travel more, broaden her horizons and understand the world.