Enrich knowledge reserve
As parents, we need to enrich our knowledge and deeply understand all aspects related to sex. When children ask us questions, we can confidently and calmly give them authoritative answers.
Pay attention to tone and manner.
When communicating with children, pay attention to the tone and manner. Using imperative tone may make children feel depressed and disgusted, leading to communication failure. On the contrary, we should strive to establish a friend-like relationship with our children and let them feel our concern and understanding.
Choose the right time
It is also important to choose the right time for sex education. Adolescent children are often sensitive and rebellious, and inappropriate timing may make them more resistant. We should respect children's feelings, protect their privacy, and choose to communicate when children are calm and willing to listen.
Stay calm and rational.
In the face of the possible puppy love problem of adolescent children, we should remain calm and rational. Don't treat puppy love as a scourge, but communicate with your children with an open mind. Let them know that we understand their feelings and analyze problems objectively and calmly.
Spend more time with your children.
It is very important to spend more time with children. Accompanying is the key to establishing a good parent-child relationship. Through companionship, we can better understand children's needs and puzzles. In this way, children will be willing to communicate with us and adopt our suggestions when they encounter problems.
Correct sexual concept
In this era of information explosion, it is easy for children to acquire sexual knowledge through various channels. However, this knowledge often lacks the correct guidance of sexual concepts and easily leads them astray. Therefore, as parents, we have the responsibility to provide children with correct sexual education guidance, help them establish correct sexual concepts, and let them understand that sex is not dirty, but an instinct of the body comes from love.