1. Frustration education makes children make positive progress.
As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success. Every setback and failure can make children understand the importance of progress and treat their study and life with a tougher attitude. Frustration education will cultivate children's indomitable spirit, so that children will not be defeated by setbacks, find the direction of efforts, and thus achieve success. When he grows up, encountering greater setbacks will only make him work harder, be fearless and keep making progress.
2. Let children find their own shortcomings.
Children may feel sad and lost when they fail, but it is also a good opportunity to know themselves. By analyzing the causes of failure, children will find their own shortcomings, avoid making the same mistakes after improvement, learn from repeated failures, accumulate experience, and lay a good foundation for success.
3. Make the child's heart stronger.
Correct frustration education helps children learn to adjust their psychological state in setbacks and not indulge in loss and negative emotions. Frustration will stimulate children's fighting spirit and willpower, let children face difficulties with a positive and unyielding attitude, let children learn to survive in adversity, enhance their self-confidence and competitiveness, and be conducive to the healthy development of body and mind.
How to Cultivate Children's Frustration Ability
1, let the children suffer.
In life, we can give our children more opportunities to do and practice by themselves, so that they can bear hardships and be tired. It can not only cultivate their creativity, but also cultivate their strong will and hard-working spirit.
For example, take children to the countryside to experience life, learn to cook, collect firewood and carry water, feed chickens and pigs, and so on. Let children truly realize the hardships of life and learn to face the difficulties and challenges of life.
2. Give the child a difficult task.
Dare to let go, not afraid of children hitting the wall, not afraid of nails, and often give him some difficult tasks. If children fail, we should encourage them more and criticize them less. When children encounter difficulties, we should actively help them, find out the problems and solve them together.
For example, let children learn to wash their own clothes. At first, children may not be clean, and they will be depressed and feel that washing is not good. At this time, we can teach children how to wash clothes by hand. With constant encouragement and hands-on demonstration, children not only washed their clothes more cleanly, but also enhanced their self-confidence. In the face of any difficulties in the future, children will understand that as long as they persist, they will certainly succeed.
3. Teach children that winning or losing is a common occurrence in military strategists.
Some parents play games with their children and always like to let them win. In the long run, children will develop blx, strive for the first place everywhere, care too much about winning or losing, and can't stand any setbacks and failures. Therefore, it is necessary to properly pour some cold water on the child and let him know that "the military will fail" is a common thing, and no one can always win.
Therefore, when playing chess or games with children, don't always give way to them. You can win once or twice. Even if you lose to your child on purpose, you can look unhappy and tell him, "I lost this time, but as long as I work hard, I will definitely win you next time." Call a few times more slowly, and the child and his parents will lose and win, so that the child will not care so much about winning or losing. He will understand that as long as he tries to sum up experience from failure, it is the greatest gain.
No one's life will be smooth sailing, and difficulties and setbacks are inevitable. As parents, we should give our children a rational love and keep them away from blx. Only when they grow up can they calmly face the hardships in life and learn to stand on their own feet.