Classic advice on educating children. Many people educate their children to give whatever they want. Excessive indulgence hinders their healthy psychological growth. Sometimes they have to learn to let their children do it. Let's take a look at the classic advice on educating children!
Classic advice on educating children 1 1. Answer all questions raised by children with utmost patience and honesty.
2. Take seriously the serious questions and opinions raised by children.
3. Put a display stand on which children can show their things.
Don't blame the child for the mess in the room or on the desktop, as long as it is related to her creative activities.
5. Give the child a room or a part of the room, mainly for him to play.
6. Explain to the child that he is already cute and there is no need to show himself.
7. Let children do what they can.
8. Help children make personal plans and how to complete them.
9. Take the child to places he is interested in.
10 to help children improve their homework.
1 1. Help children communicate with children of different social and cultural classes normally.
12, follow reasonable behavior standards and pay attention to let children do it.
13, never tell a child that he is worse than other children.
14, never punish children with abuse.
15. Provide children with books and materials and let them do what they like.
16, let children think independently.
17, read something to the children regularly.
18, let children develop the habit of reading from an early age.
19. Encourage children to make up stories and fantasize.
20. Take children's personal requirements seriously.
2 1. Spend time alone with your children every day.
22. Allow children to participate in planning housework and travel.
23. Never make fun of a child because he made a mistake.
24. Praise children for reciting poems, telling stories and singing.
25. Teach children to communicate freely with adults of all ages.
26. Make an experimental plan in detail to help children learn more.
27, allow children to play with all kinds of garbage (such as paper core, empty beverage bottles, etc.). Excluding dangerous goods such as medical waste).
28. Encourage children to find problems and then solve them.
29. In what children do, constantly look for places worthy of praise.
30. Never praise a child in an empty and insincere way.
3 1, honestly evaluate your feelings for your children.
32. There is no topic that can't be discussed with children at all.
33. Give children a chance to really make their own decisions.
34. Help children become individual.
35. Help children find TV programs worthy of attention.
36. Give play to children's ability to actively understand their talents.
37. Never look down on a child's failure.
38. Encourage children not to rely on adults as much as possible.
39. Trust the child's reason and trust him.
40. Let children finish the basic part of their work independently, even if they don't believe there will be a positive final result.
Classic advice on educating children 2 1. Be a dutiful parent.
When children tell us to do our homework well, don't listen carefully, let them take out their homework and have a look. Usually, you should check your homework more to see how it is done and whether your handwriting is good or not. Usually, you should analyze your own words more and have more contact with teachers. Some dishonest children often make up excuses to deceive adults because their parents seldom contact their teachers. I hope parents can show their children homework several times a week. For students who have not finished their homework, the teacher will also give feedback in the notebook in time, so please pay attention to them.
2, do not relax the education of children to be human.
Dewey, an American educator, once said: The ultimate goal of all education is to form personality. It is every parent's wish to ask their children to be sincere and kind. However, apart from the influence of parents and peers, personality education is also indispensable for parents to cultivate their children. When a child has a personality deviation, he must point it out in time. When children have a true, kind and beautiful personality, they should also be encouraged in time to let them feel the charm of noble personality. Now some children are weak in willpower, lack of sense of responsibility and self-motivated, which is related to their growing environment. Therefore, I hope that parents can provide their children with more opportunities for exercise and let them undertake more housework within their power. The less physical exercise a child has, the less he wants to make progress. Let children be filial, don't give them the best things every time, but share the best things with them, so that children can learn to be grateful to those around them from an early age.
3. Cultivate children's interest.
Some children often have some hobbies (such as music, art, small production, etc.). ), and they also hope that their parents can guide and encourage them more, because the growth of people not only needs to accept knowledge, but also needs to develop in other aspects, so as to have a more comprehensive literacy. At the same time, interest is encouraged, and children's interest will also be transferred to learning, which can promote the improvement of learning. If you interfere with children's interests too much, sometimes it will not improve your grades, and sometimes it may be counterproductive.
4. Let children develop good study habits.
Do your homework before you go home to play. If you watch TV, try not to spend more than half an hour after dinner. For those who have computers. Students are required to surf the Internet under the supervision of their parents. For students with poor restraint, it is recommended not to surf the Internet. The school does not encourage parents to buy computers for their children. Generally speaking, the network does more harm than good to minors. In order to create a good family atmosphere for children, I hope parents can set an example. If children have strong restraint, they can relax their requirements appropriately, but they can't spend more than half an hour surfing the Internet or watching TV. Nowadays, some parents give their children the internet or watch TV without restraint, which has brought great negative effects to their children.
5. Let children read more useful books.
Reading is an indispensable nutrition for one's growth. A child who reads a lot of books doesn't need parents and teachers to worry too much. They will have the ability of self-control and self-motivation. I hope parents can often take their children to the bookstore or library to read books during recess. How much a person reads determines whether he can go further. When children have the requirements of buying books or studying, I hope parents can meet them, and it is best to accompany their children to study and grow up together.
Parents' skills in educating their children
1, the main factor affecting children's grades is not school, but family.
2. If there is something wrong with family education, children may have a hard time at school, and children are likely to become "problem children" at school.
3. For children with good grades, the mother is usually a planned and agile person. The more serious, organized and polite a father is, the better his children's grades will be.
Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer it is, the better it is for children's growth. Parents need to provide their children with basic cultural materials to prevent them from falling into the abyss of inferiority.
5. Richness is another resource of higher education. The experience of westerners is: "It takes three generations to train a noble." "Class is hereditary." However, more advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. Without advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to children's growth.
6. Don't be a knowledgeable and uneducated parent. Some people have received higher education, but they are not necessarily literate. If parents don't know how to live, treat others well, or even treat their children well, then no matter how high their academic level is, they are uneducated.
7. Parents can regard their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that parents should also live an independent life. If parents are completely child-centered and have no theme of their own lives, such parents often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it's not that children can't live without their parents, but that parents can't live without their children.
8. Parents need to take the responsibility of educating their children, but don't completely cancel their leisure life because of educating their children. "No sense of responsibility hurts others, too much sense of responsibility hurts yourself."
9. If parents quickly pick up their children when they cry, then children will take advantage of this feature of their parents and constantly pester their parents to make more demands. Therefore, the child cried, don't rush to pick it up, parents had better let themselves have something to do, and let the children watch themselves and do things quickly.
10, the relationship between husband and wife affects the child's personality. If a man doesn't respect his wife, then his son learns to disrespect his female classmates at school. If a woman doesn't respect her husband, then her daughter learns to look down on her male classmates at school.
1, the best time for children to study, parents must not miss it. The critical period of children's development means that when children learn certain behaviors, skills and knowledge, they develop fastest, learn to accept the best and are most susceptible. If children are properly guided at this time, it can be said that it has laid a solid foundation for their future growth.
Parents' methods of educating their children
1, the best time for children to study, parents must not miss it. The critical period of children's development means that when children learn certain behaviors, skills and knowledge, they develop fastest, learn to accept the best and are most susceptible. If children are properly guided at this time, it can be said that it has laid a solid foundation for their future growth.
But when is the best learning period for children? Parents must remember the following key stages:
Six months ago is a critical period for children to learn to chew.
2 to 6 years old is a critical period for children to standardize their concept of order.
3 to 6 years old is also a critical period for children's language learning.
From the age of 3 to 8, children's imagination began to grow actively.
From 5 years old to 10 years old, the learning acceptance of culture is the best.
From the age of 8 to 14, parents can cultivate their children in reading.
12 years old to 15 years old, children's sense of independence begins to grow, and parents should pay attention to their emotional changes during adolescence.
2. Re-recognize maternal love and fatherly love, both of which are needed by children. Only at each stage, maternal love and fatherly love have different effects on children. Motherly love brings virtue, etiquette and temperament to children. Fatherly love brings growth and rational personality traits to children. Motherly love has a great influence on children's infancy, while paternal love has an obvious influence when children begin to accept external things.
Therefore, the general trend of children's dependence on maternal love and paternal love is: children need maternal love care and protection when they grow up, and with the growth of children, the demand for fathers is gradually enhanced.
Infant stage: maternal love affects 80%, and paternal love affects 20%.
In the lower grades of primary school, maternal love affects 70% and paternal love affects 30%.
The second grade of primary school: maternal love affects 60%, and paternal love affects 40%.
In the senior grade of primary school, maternal love affects 50% and paternal love affects 50%.
Junior high school: maternal love affects 40%, and paternal love affects 60%.
3. The premise of educating children is to understand that children treat children as friends and understand the law of children's growth. After children enter junior high school, it is easy to close themselves off. Parents must understand their children and find the language code to communicate with them, but pay attention to cherish "words" as gold. Mature parents should study their children's pedagogy and psychology, read more family education books and periodicals, understand the characteristics and laws of their children's different growth stages, and often communicate with their children to understand what they are thinking and doing.
In this regard, we very much agree. The genetic testing project of children's talents that we are currently doing is mainly to help parents to quantitatively evaluate their children from six aspects: intelligence, emotion, music, art, language and sports, so that parents can master the advantages and disadvantages of their children in detail, so as to guide their children and give full play to their strengths.
Parents love learning, and children can educate their children from ordinary parents every day. They always think that they can play a supervisory role. Do not study, blindly beat and scold children, thinking that talents (dutiful sons) are born under the sticks. In fact, this is extremely wrong. Parents should set an example and study more by themselves. On the one hand, their ideas of educating children are getting wider and wider, but on the other hand, it is more important to set an example for children and strengthen the example that children should consciously learn.