First of all, understand the reasons why children are tired of learning. Is it because the study is too hard and the frustration is too strong, which leads to self-abandonment, or some students have been brainwashed by publishing the useless theory of reading. After finding the reason, communicate with the class teacher and make a plan according to the school performance. Communicate patiently with children, penetrate the future possibility of going to school, encourage them as long as they make progress, but they must not fight and nag, otherwise it will be counterproductive.

Secondly, help children re-examine their cognition and position themselves. Education guides children to learn to give themselves positive psychological hints and tell themselves what others can do and that they can do it through hard work. What others can do well, you can do well by yourself through serious efforts. Let today's self bid farewell to yesterday's self and cultivate a new one from the heart.

Once again, guide with interest, the more the better. Study habits need interest guidance. Children should pay attention to their hobbies from kindergarten. Parents should not expect fame and marriage, but should pay attention to the process of children's interest. It is important to record children's hard journey from uninterested to interested, so that children can relive the experience of progress in the joy of progress, and then deepen their understanding and perception of learning emotionally.

Fourth, give children positive expectations and encouragement, and let them carry out internal self-correction and improvement. In the process of helping children to correct themselves, the trust, respect, expectation, support and encouragement of parents are very important. This process is a long and arduous process, which may be repeated countless times. In any case, parents should keep their faith and never give up. They should have long-term equal dialogue and exchanges, and communicate and discuss with each other for a long time.

Finally, in the process of helping children transform, we should inject continuous motivation into children. On the way to help children change their learning attitude, improve their learning psychology and improve their learning efficiency, parents must persevere, continue to support and encourage their children, fully trust and respect their children, earnestly strengthen communication and exchanges with them, and share their joys, sorrows and gains in learning. If children make a little progress, they will be affirmed and praised in time, and the scope of praise will be expanded in the class through the teacher's mouth.