Children's success is directly related to their grades. If you don't believe me, let's extract some quotations, summarize the outline of the article and feel it together:
Quotation1:"8-year-old children's printing fonts burst into red: how powerful are self-disciplined children?"
There is a saying in this article that "a self-disciplined person must be excellent", and the article teaches some good methods to help children self-discipline.
Quotation 2: "Don't let children lose at the starting line"
It is this kind of educational theory that is widely circulated on the Internet that leads a considerable number of parents to give their children all kinds of studies and make up classes crazily. It seems that only by instilling more knowledge into children's heads can children's future be guaranteed and parents can rest assured.
Quotation 3: "Other people's children"
Indeed, for other children's secrets, we can only see a single point, but we can't see or understand it at all. So the more mysterious things, the better, and the more foreign monks, the better. Therefore, all kinds of "other people's children" are prevalent. It brings anxiety to our parents and inferiority to our children.
Therefore, don't believe in online educational statements. In fact, there is not only one mode of educating children. Confucius said that "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude" is the real educational truth. Different children have different natures, and taking them all away is extremely irresponsible and destructive to children's minds.
Quotation 4: Xiong Haizi
For some habitually naughty children, people like to use the online word "Xiong Haizi". Behind all kinds of attacks on Xiong Haizi, we ignore the lack of education for children by adults. The so-called adults here are not only parents, but also adults around their children.
Some people say that the child is not mine, and I am too lazy to discipline it. It is this kind of mentality that there is a lively look and the front door sweeps the snow, which leads to the emergence of bad children's behavior in the whole social environment.
I remember that more than 20 years ago, there were still feelings between neighbors and they cared for each other. Because of complaining, both of them want to educate a child. As for whose family this child belongs, isn't it important? After all, as parents, they should not be kidnapped by the so-called educational methods on the Internet. If you love him, you should allow your child to make mistakes and give him a chance to grow up.
Educator Rousseau once mentioned: Let children grow up like children, this is their husband and wife, which is in line with the law of human development. Ye Shengtao, a famous educator, also said that learning by oneself is more important than teaching others.
In fact, education is not achieved overnight. This requires the patience and love of parents. Not the experience of others in educating their children. Their children's personality is different from others, and parents will only take it for granted, which is extremely harmful to their children, disrespectful to them, and it is impossible to educate happy and healthy children.
Therefore, a mature parent, with the mentality of "walking with snails", gives his child a lifetime to grow up slowly, which is the best gift.