There are many reasons for the conflict between children and fathers, such as tiger mother and cat father, tiger mother and cat mother, double violence, double protection, shirking responsibility, and so on. Let's analyze the specific situation. Tiger mother cat father type, generally the woman is too strong to admit defeat; But the man has no principle protection, just like David and Zhao Wei in TV series. Tiger parents and cats are the opposite, a bit like Jia Zheng and Mrs. Wang treating Jia Baoyu in a Dream of Red Mansions. Double violence, generally speaking, couples have no choice but to beat up their children by simple and rude means. After all, it is your own. If you hit yourself, your heart hurts, and you blame the other party for not caring. Double protection type, this tube is strict and that tube is noisy; Control this noise. The shirking type means that both husband and wife shirk each other and don't want to take care of it. Generally speaking, there are contradictions, at least in the management of children, not letting themselves go with the flow, but at least one of the husband and wife does not know how to educate their children, and needs to learn more from others and discuss with them what is the right education method. Anyway, there are many channels to learn now. By the way, the educational methods left by grandparents and parents may not be correct, but they should be used selectively! Husband and wife should discuss more, communicate more, don't make noise, and leave a bad influence on their children.