Children need time to review, parents should tell their children that their actions are wrong, and leave the rest to their children to solve, which is better than talking glibly than pointing fingers.
Control your irrationality and don't lose your temper with your child at will. Although you don't say a word, you can also have a good educational effect.
Being angry usually makes children rebellious. Reasoning with children rationally and seriously will help children hear their own voices.
(2) Tell your child what he did wrong in a calm language.
If the child doesn't mean to correct after making a mistake, it may be that he really doesn't know where he is wrong. After all, the child is still young. For example, some children are particularly excited at night, running back and forth or shouting in the room.
Parents should tell their children that if their neighbors fall asleep, it will disturb their sleep and lead to neighborhood conflicts. What's more, it will disturb the people and break the law. Teach children seriously. Parents need to set an example, and they should be punished instead of their children, so that children can calmly admit that they have made mistakes.
(3) No matter what kind of education means, don't expose the child's previous scars.
Parents should talk about things as they are, and should not always talk about their children's previous scars. This will only increase children's resistance and increase their pressure, which will not benefit their future study and daily life. The teaching method of exposing scars will stimulate children's self-esteem and make them unhappy.
(4) Pay special attention to educational means and occasions to "protect" children's dignity outside.
There are many ways to educate children, and beating and cursing education is the last choice, especially in public. No matter where the mistake is, it is easier for children to accept it by choosing appropriate methods than by teaching or questioning in public places.
For parents, educating their children is a lifelong study. Understand their feelings, identify with them, teach them and let them grow up in a harmonious atmosphere. Only by staying away from the education of beating and cursing can children be happier and develop excellent character. When a child makes a mistake, in a sense, it is also a process for the child to feel hardships and a valuable attempt for the child to grow up. Parents should educate their children, let them know what is wrong and what to do best, and believe that their children will get better and better! Beating and scolding education is not allowed.