In the long process of children's growth, it is inevitable to encounter some psychological problems. In order to make children grow up healthily, parents should learn some ways to deal with their psychological problems. The following are books about children's psychology for your reference only!

Children's psychology books

1, Thompson's psychological fairy tales

The author of this book is Linda Thompson, president of the American Medical Hypnosis Society and a master of child psychology. She combined 40 years of practical experience and carefully polished the story of children's psychotherapy.

Are your children afraid of new things and new environments? Afraid of performing on stage? Is it easy to get nervous during the game? Do you like to chew your fingers, wet the bed and move more? Do you often lose your temper due to insomnia? These are common problems in children's growth, and parents need to help their children out of trouble in a loving, scientific and good way.

The author is a world-class hypnotist, so this book focuses on simple hypnotherapy. Starting from the natural intimate relationship between animals and children, she sets the problems that children often encounter on animals, and children solve their psychological and physical problems through story learning. Parents can master simple and basic hypnosis methods through this book, and use 67 stories in the book to help their children solve some common problems mentioned above.

2. Attachment trilogy

The attachment theory put forward by Bi, the author of this book, is recognized by psychologists as a revolutionary achievement in the field of parent-child relationship in the 20th century. Attachment determines the development of a child's life. Many psychological and behavioral problems in infancy and adulthood can be traced back to the establishment and maintenance of parent-child attachment.

The trilogy of attachment consists of three books, which is relatively theoretical, but it is very helpful to self-review and help parents and children establish a safe attachment relationship by expounding the attachment relationship in detail. The first book, Attachment, puts forward and discusses the existence of attachment in theory. The second book, Separation, and the third book, Lost, tell the problems that will occur when attachment happens. It can help parents understand their children's emotional and behavioral development.

3. Children who have lost their forests: saving children with natural defects.

With the rapid development of science and technology in modern society, the internet, mobile phones, computers and other scientific and technological products occupy children's sight, and they become unwilling to play outdoors, and may not leave their mobile phones when they go outdoors.

Many things prevent them from going out. Some children become obese and unwilling to exercise, lack concentration, lack imagination and empathy. Maybe they just need to get out more.

This book expounds the importance of nature to the development of mental health and children's growth from the perspective of ecological psychology and natural history, summarizes the research results on the relationship between man and nature in many fields, and puts forward the cure from parents, teachers, educators, government units and other aspects to help parents lead their children to get close to nature and improve their symptoms caused by "lack of nature".

4. Mother's Mind Lesson: Children, Family and the Outside World

This book is one of the classic works of Donald Winnicott, a child psychologist, and has become a necessary guide for parents' parenting education in Europe and America.

In this book, Professor Winnicott discusses the basic interpersonal relationships in childhood. He started with the love between mother and baby, which he thought was the key to a sound personality.

In a relaxed and simple tone, he revealed the psychological mechanism contained in daily behaviors such as breastfeeding, crying, playing games, independence and shyness. He particularly emphasized the great influence of parents' natural intelligence and personality on children, and told us that the best parenting education model is to realize the interaction and communication between parents and children according to their own nature.

Professor Winnicott's writings are full of care and insight, and more importantly, they convey his heartfelt support and affirmation to his parents. This book can help you to be yourself naturally and happily, and at the same time guide your children to "be yourself" in the same way, so that you can definitely feel the natural rhythm that belongs to you and your children.

5. "Positive discipline"

Active discipline is a way to discipline children without punishment or connivance. This book holds that only in a cordial and firm atmosphere can children cultivate self-discipline, sense of responsibility, cooperative spirit and problem-solving ability, and learn social skills that will benefit them for life.

Many parents are worried about how to educate their children. They don't really want to punish their children severely, but sometimes they can't control their emotions and behaviors. Afterwards, they often reflect on whether they are not patient enough and have not mastered the correct and effective methods. They urgently need to know how to do it. Then this book may give parents a lot of practical advice.

After more than 30 years of practical development and improvement, the author of this book, Dr. jane nelsen, and other educational experts have concentrated the core ideas and methods in this book, so that tens of millions of parents have learned the parallel parenting methods of "neither arrogance nor rashness" and "kindness and firmness".

Primary school students' mental health education

1, pay attention to the child's behavior.

Pay attention to children's behavior at home and at school, and observe his performance, classroom performance, daily behavior habits, communication with parents, etc. If you find a problem, communicate with your child in time to find a solution.

2. Companionship and care

After children go to primary school, they will spend less time at home and you will spend less time with them, but remember, this cannot be the main reason for your alienation! A good parent should give their children enough companionship and care, so that their children can be comforted by their families.

Step 3 make friends with children

Parents can try to be friends with their children and communicate with them in a friend's way, so that children can feel that you are equal and that they are cared for. Note that the content of your communication should gradually transition from daily chores to study, try to guide your child to speak his mind and then solve his psychological problems.

4. Help children know themselves.

Parents should help their children understand themselves correctly, their strengths, weaknesses, personality and emotions, and then help their children develop their strengths, improve their weaknesses, and make their children more and more excellent and confident.

5. Cultivate a sound personality

This requires parents to set an example, objectively and rigorously teach their children how to become a kind, independent, individual, strong and right-wrong person, and also properly and correctly educate their children about heterosexual communication.

6. Seek help from a psychologist.

If you think you can't give your child a good enough mental health education, you can seek the help of a professional psychologist, give your child a correct and scientific psychological counseling, and make your child's mind healthier.

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