Parents educate their children in a violent way, which will have these three bad consequences.

1, leading to alienation from children.

When I was a child, in the eyes of children, parents were the only dependence of children, and they also relied on them wholeheartedly. When parents beat and scold their children, their dependence on their parents will become weaker and weaker. Because in the eyes of children, parents' beating and cursing is irreversible harm. Before parents beat and scold their children, if they have anything happy or unhappy, they will share it with their parents at the first time.

When parents educate their children with sticks, children lose their dependence on their parents, and they will no longer tell their parents what they have seen, heard and wanted. After a long time, the parent-child relationship between children and parents will become weaker and more alienated. When such children grow up, it is especially difficult to get close to their relatives or friends, because they will feel that only themselves are the most trustworthy.

2. Sensitive personality and inferiority complex

When children are young and unable to take care of themselves, the most dependent people are their parents. When the child is older, if the child is confused and doesn't understand anything, he will go to his parents to solve the problem. In the eyes of children, parents are tall and powerful, and parents are their role models.

However, when one's role model begins to commit violence against oneself, the child's psychological construction will collapse instantly. Because children don't have a particularly sound psychology when they are young, the emotions after being beaten and scolded by their parents can be handled well and can only be borne by themselves. After a long time, the child's personality will become particularly sensitive and self-abased, because the child feels that he should beat and scold himself to his best parents, so he should be pitiful and his parents will treat him like this.

3. Affect the development of healthy personality.

At present, our brother and sister are all very extreme in character. If something happens, the first thing that comes to mind is extreme thoughts. I am an extreme pessimist and will never see the positive side of life. It may be a common thing in the eyes of others, but we will find it particularly difficult here. Then you will deny others and your previous efforts, because if you can't do a small thing well, you will feel particularly useless.

It is the wish of every parent to hope that his son will become a dragon and his daughter a phoenix. However, if you want your child to grow into a kind, optimistic, cheerful and intelligent child, then family education in childhood is very important. If parents educate their children in the extreme way of stick education, it is particularly easy for children to do things and do small things in the extreme direction when they grow up.