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Strict love and gentle love are indispensable in the growth of children. Therefore, the best thing is that the father is strict with the child, or the mother is gentle with the child, that is, in a family, two people take care of the child in different ways, which will make up a lot for the overall shaping of the child's personality.

For example, you can allow him to make mistakes, but when he makes mistakes, you must severely point out where he is wrong. Then give it to him gently. How to change it? Can't you just fool around with your children? The problem of making mistakes

In the process of my whole family education, I feel that my parents are very gentle and casual. So my personality is more free and loose. However, it is not enough to be strict in dealing with problems. Therefore, whenever severely criticized and accused, the mentality will collapse. This is, no, from a big perspective, expanding a child's horizons is also cultivating his strong character.

There is also giving you all the love for your child, just because you want him to become better, so you should teach your child that the initiative is in his hands. For example, you can give her anything she wants and let her give back! Therefore, parents only play the role of a guide. Although he is the first teacher in life, he still needs students who are willing to learn from teachers to teach well.

So I think in the process of growing up, how should we guide children to be more conscious? Initiative, stimulating his internal drive, setting up his goals for a better future and so on are the most valuable.

Thank you for your trust. The above is my reply. I hope I can help you and wish you a happy life ~