They require that the shoes must be placed neatly, the threshold of tatami can't be stepped on, and the sliding door must hold the handle switch. When doing these things, it can't make a sound and can't affect others.
Parents clean the house four or five times a day to keep it clean and tidy; When father does farm work, he must first uproot the weeds around him before he starts farming.
When Kenyamasaburo first set up the company, there were many problems in the company. He doesn't know how to preach or where to intervene. He remembered his parents' way of life: although he seldom taught him, he learned from his parents' words and deeds that he should not influence others and keep clean.
He began to wash himself silently. At first, the employees didn't understand him, but they laughed at him and even walked past him at work. He doesn't care. Keep cleaning. Ten years later, people began to join the cleaning team slowly, with more and more people, the company culture gradually formed and the status of employees became better and better. Later, someone came to the company to learn cleaning methods.
His fame is getting bigger and bigger, and he has also published "Everything is Thorough", "Kenyamasaburo's Quotations" and "Life Law Learned from Cleanliness".
His parents mainly do things and always do them, so the influence is engraved in his heart and he can't help becoming a person like his parents.
My bosom sister Lu Qin talked about her mother's influence on her childhood and said two things.
One thing is that she exchanged her brother's favorite things with others, but he couldn't find them when he needed them. Later, he learned that she gave it to others. After her mother knew it, she didn't blame her, but said to her, go and change it back!
The second thing she learned from the North Korean who put the plate on her head. As a result, hot food spilled all over her face. She is in pain and fear. As a result, her mother unhurriedly washed the scalded area with cold water, then went to the hospital for examination and treatment, and then asked her why she put the plate on her head. She said it was to learn from Koreans. Mom took her to see a movie about Korean life, and she realized that Koreans had a straw ring on their heads when they were moving things.
The reason why she has a good personality and great achievements is that she is influenced by her mother: her mother doesn't panic and her children don't panic.
When Bao Xiao gets up every day, I will happily say to her: Good morning!
I have said many times that no matter who she sees when she goes out, she will raise her little hand and say, OK! Makes people embarrassed to talk to her and enjoys it.
Once, my husband handed the child a steamed bun or an apple, and always subconsciously took a bite. At first, I didn't care. Later, I found that when Bao Xiao handed someone something to eat, she always took a bite first. I realized that her father's behavior affected her. Later, I asked my father to solve the problem first, and she gradually changed this behavior.
Bao Xiao used to go to bed very late. I always thought it was Bao Xiao's problem. Later, I knew that I slept late and Bao Xiao was not sleepy. As I stipulated that the lights should be turned off at 10 at the latest, even if I was not sleepy, Bao Xiao followed me to go to bed early and get up early.
Husband lamented: the original child's problems can be found from parents!
Educating children is obviously a win-win situation, which can not only achieve themselves, but also lead children. However, some people make parenting lose both sides.
Therefore, from now on, we should pay attention to our words and deeds and don't have to teach our children how to do it. You just have to be yourself and have your own influence behind you.