Parents' experience in educating their children 1

We are very satisfied with Cui Xinyu's performance now. Although her academic performance is not particularly excellent, it is still good. More importantly, she has a good personality, positive optimism, diligent study, love to think, be generous with others, and have correct values and outlook on honor and disgrace. Speaking of teaching children, we usually pay attention to the following points in the education of children:

1. In order to cultivate children's excellent character, we bought some biographies about the Chinese nation.

Tell her stories in her spare time, let her read books, instill traditional and positive mainstream virtues in her, and tell her what is beautiful and respectable and what is contemptuous; Example is higher than words. In real life, we adults should try our best to set an example for our children. We shouldn't say one thing and do another. In this case, children will doubt your positive education and even your character. It's terrible. Sometimes adults make mistakes in front of children. When children educate us in an adult tone, adults should not feel ashamed. If they are wrong, they should be brave enough to admit their mistakes and correct them. As a role model for children, adults should never relax themselves and always pay attention to their words and deeds. You should pay attention to the forever bystanders around you. The days when parents are children. She pays special attention to your words and deeds. If adults don't pay attention and say something bad, they set some bad examples and children will follow suit. Our heart jade, never swearing, is aboveboard and polite to people, which deserves our pride.

2. Be a child's friend, treat her equally and listen to her heart. The child is self-sufficient.

In my consciousness formation period, rebellious period and adolescence, there will be a lot of confusion. What she needs most is friends and respect. Her parents must have given her these two points. She must treat him equally. She will treat you as a friend and tell you the truth. Always give her the right to speak, patiently listen to her finish her point of view, and don't interrupt her casually. Only when she has mastered her real thoughts and things. Adults want to shape children's excellent character, not create excellent quality. She is right. You should praise her positively. If she is wrong, you should clearly point out where she is wrong and what she should do. Just like a qualified gardener shaping a beautiful bonsai, pruning redundant vines and supporting vigorous branches, this bonsai can show the beauty of life and art.

3. Cultivate children's interest in learning, encourage education, praise education, and tell children to learn.

Learning is a very happy thing. For Chinese, history, geography and other courses, adults still have to tell their children about the beauty of China's traditional culture, historical allusions, interesting stories of literati, famous mountains and rivers of poetry ... As long as you like to talk to your children, they will be willing to listen and arouse their interest. Only by exploring the source can she learn, and she will have the motivation to learn and will not feel too tired. For mathematics and physics, we can compare them to difficulties and mountains. Give children a pleasure to conquer difficulties and climb mountains. To learn a little knowledge and do a correct problem is to overcome a difficulty and climb a mountain. Don't be stingy with your praise and praise.

Praise not only cultivates the child's self-confidence, but also rewards her. Material rewards are also needed. Ask the child what he needs. As long as it's not an excessive demand, parents should satisfy their children as far as they can, and let them know that there is a reward for giving. There are no really stupid children now. Parents should never say that their children are stupid, which will hurt her self-esteem and self-confidence and is not conducive to their education.

Educating children is a big topic, and the above is just our humble opinion.

? Parents' experience in educating their children II.

The tasks that parents should accomplish in their life can be summed up as just two things. One is to achieve self-realization in society and achieve career success. The second is to educate their offspring and complete the important part of self-continuation-educating children. Every parent has a long way to go, from the time of living with children, the position of children in children's minds, educating children how to behave, and educating children by example. The following are my personal methods and superficial experiences in educating children. There must be some shortcomings, and we need to study hard.

(A) some methods for children's bad habits in life

1, children don't like drinking or don't take the initiative to drink white water, we will take provocation. For example, when a child drinks water, I will say to the child, "Let your father and I guess and see which one of us is right." Dad said, "You can't finish it." As a result, she drank it all, and the effect was not bad. Because during this period, children began to enter a rebellious period and liked to do things contrary to their parents' ideas, so I seized this feature.

It is difficult for children to wear clothes. Because our family is a girl, loves beauty and is very picky about what to wear. It's hard to go out every time, and you have to argue with me about getting dressed every time. Finally, I came up with an idea. Before going out, I took out two sets of clothes for her to choose from, and she chose one of them. I think this way not only achieved my goal, but also made her respected, confident and confident, and she was very happy. Since then, she has basically worn her own clothes. I can also match myself, have my own aesthetic sense, and be good at sorting clothes.

3. The child doesn't want to brush his teeth. To solve this problem, my method is to make the mother weaker than the child. For example, I brush my teeth with my children. Before brushing my teeth, I said, "Yuanyuan, mom can't even brush her teeth correctly." Please give me a demonstration and let her study hard. " She immediately began to brush her teeth, and she was very proud. I have been brushing together for a few days, and then I brushed myself.

I don't go to bed on time. In view of this problem, I think it is a habitual problem for both adults and children. Yuanyuan didn't go to bed until after 1 1 every night, so she didn't listen at all. Finally, I can only push my bedtime forward every day. Because of habit, she couldn't sleep at first, so I went to bed with her, read books and tell stories with her, and played games, such as games between doctors and patients, because children like this kind of games, pinching her back, rubbing her stomach and scratching her, and slowly she fell asleep. Later, I went to bed earlier every day and adjusted to normal sleep time. After getting used to it, she will naturally feel sleepy.

About the arrangement of children's own toys and books, these are also a habit cultivation. When the child is very young and can't walk, we clean it up and let her watch. When she grows up and can clean up by herself, let her clean up by herself. At first, it may not be so good. So we have been encouraging her and affirming her behavior. After a long time, she also got into the habit of knowing that her toys or books should be put back.

(2) Some methods of safety education for children's movement development and emotional fluctuation.

1. In terms of physical fitness, Yuanyuan was weak since childhood, which may be related to not letting her do this exercise when I was a child. I didn't exercise much since I was a child, and I rarely went out before half a year old. Since I went to kindergarten and began to take physical fitness tests, we realized that we need to strengthen our exercise. Only exercise can make up for the previous shortcomings. Fortunately, Yuanyuan is more sensible and hardworking. On the way back from kindergarten every day, she will practice long jump and take her to the park to do some exercises on Saturday and Sunday. She is basically not forced, and exercise is voluntary. Not bad now. The teacher said that we have made great progress, and we are also very pleased.

1. In terms of practical ability, this is Yuanyuan's strength. I remember Yuanyuan took the initiative to pinch glass balls when she was four or five months old, and often buckled labels on toys. She started tearing when she was seven or eight months old and posted pictures everywhere. When she was one and a half years old, she began to play eight puzzles, and the difficulty gradually increased. When she was two or three years old, she began to play 128 puzzles, which was so powerful that we adults couldn't play with her. First play with stickers, then do puzzles, and then start painting, doing manual and paper-cutting. At the beginning, she basically painted the appearance first, then cut it out and pasted it on. She finished the whole process by herself. We just need to watch it with her and give positive comments on her works. Yuanyuan is best at sewing, sewing buttons with needle and thread. Of course, these all need the guidance of parents, and we need to let go and let our children try boldly. Children are really infinite. Look at my work:

3. In terms of emotion, Yuan Yuan was optimistic since childhood, and liked laughing very much, but didn't like crying very much, and was reasonable. This may be related to the family environment. She is very strong. I remember when I was a child, I went to the hospital for an injection to draw blood. As long as I tell her the truth, she won't cry. But during the period from Yuanyuan 1 half to Yuanyuan 2/half, her mood was very unstable. Children are timid, shy, don't like to play with their peers, don't like to talk, and are particularly afraid of the elderly. They cry when they see people, and they are always held by their mothers. This time may be the longest. I've been looking for the reason. I think it may be that the space in Beijing is too small and there are few people in contact. So, in the end, I decided to take my children to the southern countryside, change the environment and let them contact more people and things. When I first arrived at my grandmother's house, I cried about everything. But she got used to it gradually, getting used to it day by day, getting better and better, and the children began to talk. I was very excited at that time. So I lived in my grandmother's house for three months, and of course I stayed with her all the time. After returning to Beijing, children have changed a lot. They like to play with children. When they see people, they stop crying and return to their old smiles. That's from the heart. I think it's really right to take my children to grandma's house, and then I'll take her somewhere else as soon as I have time. It was not until I first went to kindergarten that I began to get emotional. Of course, this is normal. During that time in kindergarten, when she was depressed, I would often hug her, kiss her, say something she liked to hear and tell her the truth of going to kindergarten. For example, tell her that going to kindergarten, primary school, middle school, university, working, getting married and having children is something that each of us has to experience. Therefore, Yuanyuan should do the same. She is really something. After I finished talking to her, she understood and stopped crying. Until now, Yuanyuan went to kindergarten happily every day. The way to tease children's bad emotions is the love and companionship of parents.

Parents' experience in educating their children 3

Educating children is an important task for the whole family. Educating children really requires parents to move from "self-cultivation" to "family integration" in order to achieve the goal of education. This year, I specially bought MP3 and a set of audio amplifier, downloaded the classic explanations and reading materials on the Internet into MP3, and then played them through the amplifier, so that everyone at home can get in touch with this information and learn at the same time. At the same time, the life behavior of family members is restricted and regulated to a certain extent, and the education of children needs the growth of every family member. At the same time, with the help of MP3 Walkman, my learning process of ancient Chinese will be accelerated. I found that there are many excellent traditional cultural resources on the Internet. Over time, my children and I have greatly improved our literary level.

In the process of studying, I have encountered such difficulties. Sometimes, it is not uncommon to be sarcastic but counterproductive. I've been troubled by this, too Later, I thought about it carefully: parents should not only blame their children, but also reflect on their children to see where the problems are and whether they can make them more acceptable in another way. In fact, as long as you are thoughtful and creative, family education can be very interesting.

After the child has some reading ability, I began to try to write some small notes with different contents for the child, even if there are only a few words. I sometimes put these little notes in the children's pencil box, sometimes quietly put them in the children's toy box, and even put them on the refrigerator door, mirror and pillow. Where children can see and find them used to be her goal. She hopes that when the child accidentally finds these small notes, it will bring him surprises and let him really feel the attention and love of his parents.

I don't know what is right and what is best in children's education, but some aspects of children's education are common, and some things are different according to children's personality and characteristics. In education, we should not only let nature take its course, but also be persuasive and seek a balance between management and no matter what.

Come on! "Don't lose heart, try again." "You did a great job! I am happy for you! " . We often give such encouragement to children, and children will make rapid progress in our encouragement. Children need encouragement. We often encourage children to participate in school group activities. When they come back, we will listen to what happened when they took part in the activities and ask him some further questions: What activities did you do today? With who? Are you interested in continuing to participate in such activities? What are the gains and experiences from participating in this activity? Why? In order to arouse children's interest, find problems in time and solve them. So every encouragement we give is a catalyst for his progress. In many aspects of study and life, we give children a lot of encouragement and appreciation. Therefore, the child is confident, and I think it is very valuable for him to have such a positive idea.

This is our little experience in the process of educating children, but there are also many shortcomings. In the days to come, we will also learn while teaching, explore in practice and make continuous progress in learning, so that children can grow up healthily and happily and become outstanding successors in the new century.

Parents' experience in educating their children

How do parents educate their children's experiences and experiences? Family is very important for children's life growth. Family is the first school in their lives, and parents are their most important first teachers. Parents and children get along day and night, and they have the most time and opportunities to contact each other. Parents' words and deeds affect their children all the time. Parents' teaching guides children to grow up from childhood, which is of great and far-reaching significance to their future success. As the first bridge for children to go to society, family education plays an extremely important role in children's personality, quality and healthy growth.

First, cultivate children's self-confidence and stimulate their enthusiasm for learning.

On the issue of educating children, we have never obeyed them. We should not only take care of their food, clothing, play and study, but also attach importance to their education and training. We never arbitrarily affirm or deny children's achievements or mistakes. Considering children's psychological characteristics, we should avoid adult education methods, even simple and rude. We should encourage and praise every achievement the child has made, help him analyze problems, find out shortcomings, patiently persuade and educate him, and avoid damaging the child's self-esteem. When a child gets his report card back in the exam and occasionally his grades are not satisfactory, we always help him analyze the reasons for his failure in the exam first, tell him not to be afraid because of his failure in the exam, encourage him to strengthen his study in the future, encourage him to get good grades next time, safeguard his self-esteem and cultivate his self-confidence, thus stimulating his enthusiasm for learning.

Second, cultivate children's innovative consciousness and tap their intellectual potential.

There are many opportunities and methods to cultivate children's innovative consciousness in family life. First of all, we let children pay more attention to observing everything around them and learn to find and analyze problems. In family life, when a child meets something, we help him observe it from different angles and tell its characteristics, thus expanding his thinking range. Sometimes he will ask some questions for him to answer and gradually cultivate children's creative thinking. Whenever the child encounters difficulties, we try not to tell him how to solve them. Let him try to find the most accurate, convenient, quick and time-saving method. He can solve problems through his own independent thinking, and he will be

Psychologically satisfied, so that their creative thinking ability can be exercised. Secondly, hands-on operation is the source of cultivating children's innovative consciousness. Hands-on is the embodiment of children's wisdom. More hands-on operation will promote the development of children's abilities in all aspects, and children will find many new problems and solutions through operation. Children will exert their creative thinking ability to solve any difficulties and problems in the future. Finally, we also pay attention to giving children a relaxed and harmonious environment in the family, in which children's observation, imagination and thinking ability can develop healthily. When children put forward so-called "strange theories" or do "strange things", we never deny them easily, but let them give full play to their imagination and talent. We believe that a child's hidden wisdom is enormous. As long as we can guide him correctly, his potential will be brought into full play.

Third, correctly understand children's abilities and have moderate expectations for children. As parents, they all want their children to succeed. In order to achieve this goal, some parents do all kinds of intellectual development or skill training at all costs.

Moreover, it is not in line with the content of school education. Please tutor your children in your spare time, such as learning piano, drawing, playing chess and dancing. So that children are troubled by various learning tasks all day. A large number of facts have proved that imposing too many learning tasks on children will cause children to be tired of learning. Because children don't take the initiative to learn, they lack interest in what they have learned. Even after taking part in the study, they are still "people are there, and their hearts are in Han". If this goes on, it will damage the children's enthusiasm for learning, and the loss will outweigh the gain. Based on this, we have moderate expectations for children, arrange his study reasonably according to his specialties and interests, respect his own wishes, and never increase his study burden.

Fourth, cultivate children's habit of keeping promises and be cautious about making promises to children.

Parents' promises to their children must be meticulous and practical, so that children can have a motivation to make progress and urge them to complete their tasks better. Only by keeping promises can parents' prestige be established. In real life, we do the same. Before making a promise to children, we should carefully consider whether we should make a promise to children, whether it can be fulfilled, whether this promise is good for children and so on. After the promise, we will abide by it, which not only protects the child's self-esteem, but also maintains our prestige as parents in the children's hearts. At the same time, educate children not to talk and promise to anyone casually, but to be responsible for what they say.

Fifth, cultivate children's will and moderately frustrate education.

A person's life will not always be smooth sailing, and everyone will encounter setbacks more or less. Mental pain and physical pain are different forms of frustration. Blocked ideals, failure in pursuit, hard work and illness are all manifestations of frustration. Parents should educate their children about setbacks.

It is of far-reaching significance to temper children's character and will and cultivate their ability and conduct. Allowing children to bear moderate setbacks can help them learn from setbacks, sublimate their understanding, temper their will and enhance their courage to overcome difficulties. It is for this reason that the ancients said that "learning makes wisdom". Only after tempering can children master the solution to the problem. We never spoil our children, we are not afraid to let them be wronged, we don't let them live a life of "mouth to mouth, clothes to reach out", and we often take them to participate in labor exercises to exercise their strong will. In the process of implementing frustration education for children, we will also pay attention to their ability to bear setbacks and avoid negative effects caused by negative emotions.

Sixth, cultivate children's independence and enhance their self-care ability. It is our parents' bounden duty to raise children. It is also important to let children think and solve problems independently. Children's independence can only be gradually cultivated in practice. As parents, we clearly realize that no matter what children do, they will not attend meetings and then become proficient. We always let the children do it by themselves. As long as we work hard, whether we succeed or not, we should encourage them and make them proud. Children are children after all. When a child is doing something, we will encourage him more and criticize him less, even if he is wrong.

Parents' experience in educating their children

People say that parents are the first teachers in life, so good family education is very important. Let's talk about my educational experience:

First, help children to have a correct attitude.

Parents must help their children improve their sense of responsibility for homework, and let them understand that it is his duty as a student to finish homework on time with good quality and quantity every day, just as mom and dad have to do their work wholeheartedly every day at work, and there is no room for bargaining; Parents must also help children to improve their understanding of the importance of homework, so that children can understand that doing homework is an indispensable part of mastering knowledge, a continuation and expansion of learning, an indispensable and important means of consolidating knowledge and improving academic performance, and is not dispensable.

Second, strive to improve children's interest.

Interest is an important factor that affects people's actions. It can make people like doing an activity. However, some children have low interest in learning and poor self-awareness, and they have to deal with teachers and parents every day. They can put it off if they can, and try to avoid it if they can't. For this kind of children's homework problems, parents should start with cultivating and improving their interest in learning, and find ways to change the state that children are forced to learn by adults, so that children can become active learners of "I love learning" and "I want to learn".

Third, do your homework wholeheartedly.

Some children don't concentrate on their homework and have too many "additional actions". Sometimes they will look around and touch this and that, while others like to get together and chat while doing their homework, or like to listen to music and watch TV while eating snacks while doing their homework. Of course, such half-heartedness can't guarantee the quality and efficiency of homework. Therefore, parents should ask their children to concentrate when doing homework, not to do things unrelated to homework, not to put distractions on the desk, and not to disturb their children when they are doing homework: "Did you do well in school today? Did you get the teacher's praise? " "Are you hungry? Do you want to eat snacks? " "How many courses did you take?" How much more? "

Fourth, arrange homework reasonably.

Parents should teach and urge their children to arrange and handle their daily homework reasonably. For example, they should pay close attention to school homework and don't put everything they can do at home. Don't play enough after school, and don't do your homework until your energy consumption is almost the same; Prepare learning tools (tapes, markers, blank paper, books, etc.). Before you do your homework, don't wait until you use it temporarily. When you do your homework, you should read the topic clearly and carefully before you start writing. Don't do it until you find that the topic is wrong or you don't do it according to the requirements of the topic. When you encounter problems that you can't do in your homework, you can bypass them first and do other problems that you can do first. Don't stop there and waste unnecessary time.

Fifth, pay attention to the combination of work and rest

Children should use their brains when doing their homework. If children think for a long time without rest, their brains will be tired and slow. At this time, children's learning efficiency will be reduced and the error rate will increase. At this time, if children are given proper rest, the learning efficiency will be improved after fatigue is relieved. Generally speaking, primary school students should not do homework for more than half an hour to 1 hour.

Sixth, strengthen ability training.

Doing homework well and quickly also requires some basic abilities, such as the flexibility of small hand muscles and the coordination of hands and eyes. Some children are "slow" in their homework because of their lack of coordination ability, and they often look up and down when doing homework, which reduces the efficiency and accuracy of reading and writing. For this kind of children, parents should first strengthen the training of their visual perception ability and action coordination ability, and let them do more extracurricular activities such as basketball shooting, table tennis, paper cutting, maze walking, skipping rope and skating.

Seven, review before homework.

The purpose of homework is to make students understand and remember the new words, grammar, definitions, theorems and formulas they have learned correctly, so as to consolidate their knowledge better. The quality of children's homework is based on the mastery of the knowledge imparted by the teacher in class. If the classroom knowledge is not mastered, the content learned is not digested and understood, and the homework will naturally not be done well. Therefore, in order to successfully complete homework, children can be asked to read books and reference materials before doing it, and then start writing homework after reviewing it, instead of writing it at home to save trouble.

Therefore, the author believes that parents should use their own behaviors and correct ways to influence and educate their children, so that they can feel relaxed and happy at home, so as to keep their children healthy and positive.

Parents' experience in educating their children

A friend once told me that she regretted not spending more time with her children because of her busy business when she was young. Now that the child is in high school and is in adolescence, I don't talk much to her. She really hopes that time can go back and accompany her son to grow up. Therefore, we must spend more time with children while they are still willing to talk to you and regard you as a friend.

Zheng revealed the secret of family education to us: shut your mouth, lift your legs, go your way and show it to your children. All children's imitation ability is better than that of the biosca award-winning actress 1000 times. Therefore, accompanying children to grow up is actually that you should take the lead and let children follow your example. If you set a good example, children will be "shine on you is better than blue" and vice versa.

A colleague complained to me that his children fell in love with the internet because they didn't like studying, so I asked him, "What do you do at home after work?" Without thinking, he said, "Go online!" Come on, you've set an example for your children. How interesting and easy it is to surf the internet. How can a child resist the temptation of that colorful virtual world if he imitates you? My husband and wife usually pay special attention to setting an example. After doing housework together, they will read books and newspapers, study in class, discuss business, "report" their achievements to our son and share the joy of harvest with him! Children who are exposed to hearing and vision will also learn consciously.

While accompanying children to study, we should also pay attention to timely communication with teachers, cooperate with school teachers, pay attention to the changes of children at every stage, correct his shortcomings, and stifle the signs of bad habits. Once children form good study habits, parents will be very relaxed. The children in our family are not children to worry about. They like to take the initiative, imitate others regardless of good or bad, and are easily influenced by others. They also like to show their skills and specialties. They have suffered a lot and their parents have a headache. Fortunately, the class teacher communicated with us in time to discuss the countermeasures of children's problems. The children have made rapid progress under the guidance of the deskmate specially arranged by the teacher. Especially in the next semester of the fourth grade, parents basically don't have to worry about studying. When you come back from school, you don't have to do your homework at once. After checking your homework, you take the initiative to read extracurricular books. There are hardly enough extracurricular books piled around the house for him to read.

This kind of "companionship" is not only to accompany children to study, but also to play with them.

Once a parent was very upset that he and his children could not talk, so I asked him, "What books does your child usually like to read?" He said, "Han Han!" I asked him again, "Do you read Han Han's books?" He said, "What's there to see?" You see, you don't even care about your child's hobbies, how can you talk to him!

Now the whole country is engaged in urbanization, and our county is no exception. If parents don't pay attention to creating an environment for their children and don't take them to nature, children will run away in fear when they see pigs, thinking that water is flowing out of pipes and vegetables are sold in supermarkets. This is no joke. When I was a child, many of my classmates were fans of plants, animals and mathematics. Now many children are fans of computers, networks and games. So no matter how busy, I will accompany my children to feel nature on weekends. Hongze Lake Levee, Sanhe Sluice, Hull Sluice, Waterway into the Sea ... We took him all over the natural and cultural landscape of Hongze, and the children were also very interested and observant of things. Last week, we photographed many old buildings in the county town that left our childhood memories with the award-winning digital camera of children's Go competition. The children also found some things that we don't care about, such as what trees blend into the old brick wall, a long string of ferns growing under the downpipe on the roof, and the tiles on the old roof ... The only fly in the ointment is that they rarely see his classmates and don't know how they spent their rare weekends. Anyway, you made me work hard for five days before I went to cram school. I will feel dark and lifeless, not to mention a playful child by nature. Fortunately, now he finally has a like-minded friend. Children's parents also like hiking. After the two children played together, they also wrote down their experiences. The writing level has been greatly improved, lively and interesting, simple and natural, and the true feelings are revealed. All these make us very happy!

In the process of growing up with children, we have also become mature and experienced, and have our own interpretation of life. We don't go with the flow, we don't do anything unconventional, we just want to realize our own value in a down-to-earth way! I hope that the child can pursue his life goals in a down-to-earth manner as he has always said. "Mom, as long as I can study hard and develop advanced weapons and equipment, the Japanese will not dare to bully us in China!" Really, only young people can be strong in China!