Establish a tall image
Parents should actively study, supplement their own shortcomings in time, and establish a tall image in their children's minds. Only in this way can parents speak with weight and establish prestige in their children's hearts.
teach students in accordance with their aptitude
Parents should understand their children's psychology, their inner world, and teach them in accordance with their aptitude in order to be targeted; At the same time, we should respect children's reasonable demands and don't impose our opinions on them.
Share joys and sorrows with children.
Parents should stand in the child's position, often do "psychological transposition", and experience the child's distress more, so as to understand the child's needs more deeply. Only when parents and children share happiness and troubles will children feel their parents' love, be willing to be close to their parents, be willing to listen to their parents' teaching, and the educational effect will be twice the result with half the effort.
Deal with problems rationally
Parents should learn to control their emotions and deal with problems rationally. When criticizing and correcting children's mistakes, parents should be rational and emotional, let children realize their mistakes first, let them know that such mistakes need to be corrected, and believe that children can correct them, so the educational effect is self-evident.
insist on
Educating children is a long-term task. Parents should not give up easily. Don't think that children are "hopeless" after several ineffective sermons. Education is a task that needs to be adhered to and allowed to be repeated. Don't expect it once and for all. Children can't be smooth sailing on their way forward, there will always be repetitions. This is a normal phenomenon. Parents should allow their children to repeat their studies and seize the opportunity to continue their studies to promote their children's continuous progress.
The expansion of school education
School education is an extension of family education, and parents influence and infect their children with their own actions. Based on systematic and rational education, school education guides students to understand not only the truth of being a man, but also the study of many subjects, thus truly leading students into the hall of science and improving their ideological quality, humanistic quality and scientific and technological quality. This "extended" function must be undertaken by the school.