1, creating a warm environment
Reach an educational consensus. Although our parents are very busy at work, we must all attach importance to education. We bought or borrowed books about education together and exchanged ideas about education together.
Create a learning atmosphere. It is a truth that knowledge changes fate. It is never too old to learn, and it is also our motto. In many families, you can often see such a scene: mom and dad and their children are reading and studying under the lamp.
Step 2 cultivate good habits
There is a proverb: behavior cultivates habits, habits form character, and character determines fate. However, it is impossible to cultivate children's habits through simple criticism or reprimand. We must start with children's behavior and guide them to put their determination and slogans into action.
Rules for parents to educate their children.
1, attribution rule
Ensure that children grow up in a healthy family environment, create an independent living environment for children, and cultivate children's healthy living and study habits.
At the same time, parents should be informed that there are contradictions and frequent quarrels between parents, which is also a very abnormal and unhealthy environment. Broken families and long-term separated families make children lack a sense of belonging.
2. Law of Hope
No matter how well children do, they often praise them, such as "well done" and "great" This is to motivate children positively with the law of hope.
And love to find fault with the gap, the child scored 95 points, but also have to investigate why he lost 5 points. Such high standards and strict requirements may backfire, killing the hopes of many children and frustrating them.