In recent years, "the contradiction between teachers and students" and "the contradiction between parents and teachers" can be described as one of the important contradictions that cannot be ignored in society. Parents' dissatisfaction with teachers is often heard in society, and some teachers complain that parents do not support education.

Many times, what we see may be individual phenomena. Teachers' incompetence and parents' non-cooperation are not universal or permanent. Since the problem has appeared and happened, it is in front of us. We must "investigate its causes" and find a better solution to promote the good growth of children and run a good education.

If teachers and parents have built high walls in their hearts, and they are wary of each other or even hate each other, education will be in a dilemma, delaying children and hindering the development of education.

Education needs the joint efforts of "teachers, parents and students", teachers' earnest and responsible, parents' reasoning and students' diligent efforts, all of which are indispensable.

0 1. A conscientious and responsible teacher

A teacher's words, actions, criticisms and praises may have an important impact on students' lives.

Many psychologists' research shows that teachers' criticism will bury students' normal personality development. Even if children and parents understand the teacher's intentions and difficulties, they can't erase his or her confidence in learning because of the teacher's criticism.

In fact, teacher's criticism is essential. It can even be said that a teacher's criticism is unacceptable, or that he opposes the teacher's criticism, then such a "greenhouse environment" will do more harm than good.

But in reality, there must be many children who have deviated from the course of life because of their teachers' misconduct. Note that what I object to here is the criticism that "teachers will lead students to deviate from the course of life"

An irresponsible teacher may really ruin a child's life.

Every teacher should know that every student in your class is the whole world of a family. On the surface, you are educating a child, but this child will bear the whole family in the future. His (her) success or failure, good or bad, determines their future family destiny.

Teachers must understand parents' anxiety and painstaking efforts, and take every child seriously no matter how difficult or tiring it is.

Love is not the whole of education, but education cannot be without love.

This is the goal of teachers' long-term education and the basic morality of teachers' profession.

02. Reasonable parents

School education also needs parents' understanding and support.

One is to understand the teacher's work.

Parents should learn to put themselves in others' shoes. At home, both husband and wife can't discipline their children (some one, some two or three), and there is no peace at home. Think for the teacher what it would be like to have fifty or sixty children in the classroom.

Therefore, parents should be firm supporters of teachers and cooperate with their work.

No matter how responsible a teacher is, sometimes he can't think of it and can't do it well, which requires parents to understand and communicate more.

Don't always complain and complain, and don't always hit each other.

Sit down and talk more and think from the other person's point of view, so that you may understand the other person's difficulties.

Second, it is not easy to understand children.

It is meaningful to "expect children to succeed". Every parent wants his children to be admitted to Ruyi School and get excellent grades, but "don't worry".

Every child has different abilities. What was it like when you were at school? Why should children be excellent now?

As parents, it is good to let children develop their abilities, and never set unrealistic goals.

Don't be that stupid bird. If you can't fly, just lay an egg and let future generations try to fly.

03. Diligent students

In the whole education process, the most important target is students.

In a popular saying, "cows can't bow their heads without drinking water." If children don't work hard, it's useless for parents and teachers to worry again.

However, few children consciously like to go to school since childhood, and the habit of learning depends on the cultivation of adults from an early age.

Really good students have one thing in common: they have strong self-discipline and purpose, and they can set goals and do them persistently.

Parents and teachers should give priority to cultivating children's good study habits and make them realize the importance of reading.

in short

In the final analysis, education cannot rely on the efforts of one party, but needs the close cooperation and joint efforts of teachers, parents and students. With conscientious and responsible teachers, reasonable parents and diligent efforts of students, there is no reason why grades should not be improved and education should not be successful.