So I think as parents, we must strengthen the safety awareness of children, especially girls, in our daily life, so as to effectively prevent children from being infringed.
Stay with the children.
I still remember last year's shocking incident that a girl of 1 1 year-old in Yulin City, Guangxi Province was collectively violated by villagers. For those in their seventies and eighties, I can only say that the bad guys are getting old. Calling them scum is an insult to the word scum.
However, this incident also alerted us that left-behind children in rural areas are the most vulnerable targets. Therefore, as parents, don't let your children become left-behind children at any time and for any reason. As a parent, you need to fulfill your parental responsibilities, protect the safety of your children, accompany your children, and give them a sense of security.
Don't escape, don't fool, don't be rude, and answer children's questions calmly, scientifically and popularly.
I believe everyone's children will ask our parents like my children: "Where am I from?" Such a question. For this kind of questions, don't avoid, don't fool, don't be crude, and answer your child's questions calmly, scientifically and popularly. For example, we can clearly tell our children that "you were born from your mother's stomach", "you were born after your mother was pregnant for ten months" and "there is a place like a small house in your mother's stomach called the uterus, which is very warm and where you grew up", and clearly tell your children the correct answer to satisfy their curiosity instead of avoiding their questions.
The common sense to prevent children from being violated is: never go with anyone, let alone go to a hidden place with anyone. Refuse anyone to take off their clothes when their parents are not around; Do not eat candy and other foods given by anyone; Don't let anyone see or touch the body parts covered by clothes (anyone here includes classmates, friends, teachers, neighbors, parents, friends and other acquaintances). Because "acquaintances" may also harm children's health, tell them these dangerous behaviors, improve their safety awareness and do a good job of self-prevention.
Leave the children alone with the elderly.
Speaking of which, I remembered one thing, and I'm still quite scared.
Shortly after I moved into the community, I suddenly received a phone call from my child. I asked him what it was, and he said that an uncle came to the house and that he was checking the gas. I just remembered that only the children and grandma are at home. Grandma is old and her children are still in the middle class of kindergarten. My heart thumped. I haven't received a gas test notice recently.
I quickly asked the children to check what clothes the gas worker was wearing and whether he had a work permit. Then I asked my child to send a video link, and I said that I needed to confirm something about gas with my uncle. After I got a positive confirmation, I felt a little safer and hurried home immediately.
This incident also tells me that I usually think I have done a good job in safety education, let my children remember their parents' phone numbers and alarm calls, and don't open the door for strangers. However, the reality is still hard to prevent. The so-called Tao is one foot high and the devil is ten feet high. Therefore, if there are more words, it will still be an armchair strategist without drills, and it will be vulnerable.
I think this incident is a serious problem for the staff of the gas company. But who can guarantee that when they find that there is only a little girl and an old man at home, there will be no demonic thoughts in their hearts? Back to the beginning, can't it be described as "disaster from heaven"? Since then, I dare not leave my children and the elderly alone at home or anywhere. I hope our parents can do the first security check for family protection.