How to teach children to learn to wash clothes? There are four steps:
The first step is to wash the children yourself.
Parents wash clothes, and children stand by and watch from beginning to end, and understand the process of washing clothes.
The second step is to disassemble the action of washing clothes for children.
How to wash the collar, sleeves and whole face? How hard are your hands? How to make soap? Every specific detail should be shown to children.
The third step is to let the children try to wash.
Children learn from their parents and do their own laundry. Of course, there may be many loopholes, which may be swallowed up or not clean at all. But this process of personal practice is a process of trial and error.
The fourth step is to guide the process of washing clothes for children.
In view of the problems in the process of washing clothes, give guidance again and give targeted suggestions.
Can you stick to these four steps?
When you see this, you will probably say, "This is too much trouble. I might as well wash it myself. " "Don't bother, or I'll wash it myself!" "He can't wash it clean, I will!"
So you still wash clothes, the child is still a giant baby!
1. Can you demonstrate it yourself?
What do you ask your children to do? What do you have to do first? Children are the shadows of parents, and parents are the mirrors of children. How can you let your children do what they can't do?
Can you take things apart, break them down and teach them to your children?
In the process of educating children, parents' patience and carefulness are very important. An impatient parent can't bring up a good child.
If you want your child to learn to call him "mom", you must first call him thousands of "moms".
Parents are the children's first teachers, and their words and deeds affect their children. How to do something? Why are you doing this? Only when parents teach them by hand can children really learn.
3. Try to make children independent.
Children eat, you think he eats slowly, and you have to feed the children; If the child is dressed, if you think he is not dressed slowly, help him dress directly. If the child wants a question and you can't think of it for a long time, just tell him the answer directly; On a rainy day, the child wants to walk and play in the rain, but his hand is tightly held by you.
You are afraid that children will not do well, walk slowly, fall down and have an accident. It's just that your fear limits your child's progress, and the child will never become an independent person.
4. Are you willing to help your child reflect and check the gap?
When the child does something wrong, you are the first to stand up and accuse: see if you listen to me! Since then, the child has been careful.
In fact, whenever children have problems, we can neither ignore nor criticize them. Be patient to help children analyze problems and find solutions with them.
From holding him in my arms, to walking hand in hand, to gradually letting go, and finally to his true independence. We are gradually separated from the children. You must admit that the child does not belong to us.
The child is independent. Only when we let go can he soar in the sky like an eagle, and he can embrace the vastness of the sky and the vastness of the sea.
Shallow conclusion:
The process of washing clothes is the process of educating children, demonstrating in person, paying attention to details, giving children room to grow up and helping them to make a timely resumption.
Patiently wait for children's growth, carefully teach children common sense of life, love children, tolerate children, and give them inner strength.
Only by making children truly independent is the most successful education!