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Parental education style questionnaire:

Students, each of us is growing up and making progress under the care of our parents. How do your parents teach themselves in their daily life? Please read the following options carefully and complete the questionnaire. We will be anonymous, so please answer truthfully.

1. Do you have many opportunities to chat with your parents?

A doesn't like chatting with them. They are overbearing.

B talks a lot, and they will try their best to satisfy me if they need anything.

C often chats, and I have no secrets in front of them.

D don't chat, we have almost nothing in common.

They are very busy at work and have little time to chat with me.

When you have different opinions on a topic, how do you handle it?

A I can only obey what they say, but most of the time I take it orally.

Generally speaking, they listen to me. I'm more popular.

C we will communicate with each other and express our opinions.

In this case, most of the time, their views are too outdated.

E is basically not like this, because we seldom chat together or something.

What do you often tell your parents about your school?

A They only care about my grades and don't want to hear what happened to me at school.

B I also want something wronged, or something new bought by a classmate.

C basically says everything is new.

D doesn't say anything at all, and the generation gap with them is too big, and there will be contradictions when it is said.

E hardly says, they are busy and I have no time.

How do your parents react when you do badly in the exam?

A forced me to go to cram school, even though I didn't like that teacher at all.

B won't criticize me too much for fear of hurting me. My parents still love me.

C they will ask patiently, thinking that there is a reason, and I believe my grades will come up again.

D will scold me or even hit me.

E parents basically don't care about my grades.

Do they often take you to travel during the winter and summer vacations?

A Sometimes, but they decide where to go.

B Yes, as long as I want to go, they will try their best to satisfy me.

Well, but we will discuss whether to visit a famous historical city or enjoy the natural scenery together.

Not at all. I would rather play with my friends. Traveling with them is really troublesome.

No, I seldom travel with them.

6. What do you know about some interesting things that happened when parents were young?

I don't know how they can tell me these things, for fear that they have no authority in front of me.

B I knows something, which is interesting.

C knows a lot, and they are willing to share their childhood jokes with me.

D hardly knows. It is estimated that there is nothing particularly glorious and nothing to show off.

E don't know, I don't care, and they never mention it.

7. How did they give you a present on your birthday?

A gave me small gifts, but never asked me what I liked. What I buy is often not what I like.

B will ask me what I want a few days before my birthday and give me a gift according to my requirements.

C doesn't ask much, but I like all the gifts they gave me, because there is a tacit understanding between us.

I asked them for money directly, but I didn't like the gifts they bought.

They don't seem to remember my birthday.

8. Will they interfere with your communication?

A interference. If they think this person is bad, they won't let me make friends with him.

B doesn't interfere much. As long as you get along with me, my parents will be fine.

C don't interfere, they trust me very much.

They always look down on my friends.

They can't even name my best friend.

9. Do your parents often ask about your private affairs?

A will, and always pointing fingers, like an interrogation.

B No, I'll just tell them what I want to say.

C No, they never read my diary and don't have to lock it.

D They like it so much that I have to lock all the drawers, otherwise my diary and photo album will be rummaged through.

E never asks about it, so it won't cause conflicts.

10, do they usually take care of your study and help you with your homework?

A tutor, but I don't like it. When I made a mistake, they called me stupid.

B Yes, I will ask them questions that I can't, and they will patiently explain them to me.

C can tutor, even if I don't understand simple questions, they don't scold me.

D I especially hate the feeling of being watched and studied by them.

They seldom care about me.

Result analysis:

Autocratic obedience type

B conforms to the protection type.

Understand trust types

Contradictions and conflict types

E- incoherent type

A total of 10 questions, if the same option exceeds 6, it proves that his parents are of this type of education.

If both options account for a large proportion, it means that they are two mixed education methods.

Usually,

Authoritarian obedience education makes children depressed and have no opinions.

Satisfy the protective education method, so that children can grow up healthily but easily spoiled.

Children who understand the trust-based education method have the highest success rate.

Contradictory and conflicting educational methods are easy to make children have rebellious psychology.

Non-consanguineous type is generally because parents are divorced and no one takes care of their children. Such children have lost the concept of family since childhood.

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