First, education trains children to respect others. To fundamentally prevent children from swearing, we must first educate children to know how to respect others. At ordinary times, parents should consciously introduce their children to the occupations, personalities and advantages of each family and friend, and encourage their children to learn from the advantages of others. Parents should also cultivate their children's good character of modesty and prudence, not be complacent, not compare their own advantages with others' shortcomings, let their children understand the truth that "no one is perfect without gold", treat others' shortcomings and shortcomings correctly, and never make fun of others' mistakes or misfortunes. At the same time, it is more important to cultivate and urge children to respect others in daily life. For example, take the initiative to greet teachers and classmates at school, warmly greet acquaintances, politely ask for help first, then explain the reasons, thank you afterwards, and warmly welcome guests at home.

Second, educate children to correctly treat the friction with others. In most cases, children's swearing is a vent response to their injuries, such as; Things have been stolen and knocked down by others, and people often call names. Parents should educate their children to treat the friction with others with goodwill, let them understand that the earth is crowded and unpleasant things will happen at any time, and let them learn to tolerate other people's mistakes and not be angry and angry about these small things.

Of course, parents should also help their children learn appropriate venting methods. For example, encourage children to express their true feelings, ask for help from relevant people, solve frictions, cultivate children's sense of humor, and masturbate when necessary.

Third, train children to learn to calm down for one minute when they are angry. Some children are used to swearing, although he also knows that swearing is wrong and often regrets it afterwards. In view of this situation, parents can reach a tacit understanding with their children: when children want to vent their anger, parents use some pre-agreed language or eyes to suggest that children should think calmly at this time. In this case, the child will consider how to express himself in a civilized way and filter out uncivilized language after a minute of calm. Insisting on this kind of self-education and training for children with the cooperation of parents will help children gradually correct their bad habits of swearing.

Fourth, insist on insulting children to review, and parents should seriously criticize children when they curse. When criticizing, you can ask your child the following questions: Why do you curse? Can we "fight back" with goodwill instead of swearing? What problem can swearing solve? What kind of attitude the scolded person will have and what kind of revenge means to take are all aimed at letting the children finally realize that the result of swearing is harmful and useless, thus prompting the children to apologize to the scolded person and admit their mistakes. If parents insist on it several times, children will get rid of the bad habit of swearing.

Fifth, set an example and purify the family language environment. Children's language expression is largely formed by imitating adults (especially parents). Therefore, in the family, parents should pay attention to improving their self-cultivation, language civilization, not swearing, not only to be kind to outsiders, but also to their families. In this way, it is not only conducive to correcting children's bad habits of swearing, but more importantly, it provides a clean environment for their healthy growth.