The education of children should be separated and talked as much as possible to avoid public condemnation. Teenagers have the most face, that is, strong self-esteem. Therefore, the education of children should be avoided in public, especially in front of his teachers and classmates. Many children will feel relaxed when they first enter the second day of junior high school. Therefore, parents must help him define his goals and cheer him up.
Parents and teachers walk side by side.
Junior high school children's daily activities in school are either at school or at home, so these two main places are the "main positions" of education. Family education and school education are closely linked and complement each other. Teachers and parents always have the same goals, responsibilities and missions. Close contact between parents and schools helps parents to know their children's psychological state and existing problems in time, communicate effectively and promote their healthy growth.
3. Don't criticize blindly.
Learning is the main content of middle school students' daily life. Faced with the pressure of the senior high school entrance examination, both our children and every parent are paying attention to the quality of academic performance, while ignoring the cultivation and improvement of children's comprehensive ability. If the child does well in the exam, everyone will be happy. Let's ask the children why they did well in the exam and what other problems they have. If your child doesn't do well in the exam, you might as well ask the reason, sit down with your child and analyze the papers in various subjects to find out the answer. Only by knowing what children are thinking and doing can we promote children's learning in a targeted manner.
4. Parents should hold their breath.
Rebellion is the only way for every junior high school student. In the face of children's rebellion and declining grades, it is unnecessary for parents to criticize and educate their children. At this stage, it's normal for students' grades to drop, and treason is normal.
At this time, parents should educate junior two students with understanding and tolerance, and guide their children to the right path, so as to help them improve their grades and establish correct values!
5. Ask other junior high school parents for advice.
Sometimes when it comes to junior high school students' education, it is necessary to seek other people's opinions and see what other parents think. Jump out of your fixed thinking mode and make your thinking more open. In addition, you can communicate with teachers more.
After all, teachers contact many students and know how to guide children. On the other hand, teachers know second-grade children best, and they can "prescribe the right medicine" through their performance in school.