In the face of children's disobedience, parents often consider using force to solve the problem. But we must remember that impulsively hitting children will only bring psychological shadow to children, and the effect will not be good. On the contrary, we should adopt correct educational methods to make children grow up healthily.

Let children express their emotions.

When a child makes a mistake, we should let him express his emotions first, and then guide him after he calms down, so that he can realize his mistake and be willing to take the initiative to accept punishment. In this way, children will understand their behavior better and know how to deal with problems correctly.

Let children think and solve problems by themselves

When children make mistakes, we can try to make them think for themselves and solve problems by themselves. This can not only exercise their self-care ability, but also let them learn how to deal with interpersonal relationships correctly. At the same time, as parents, we should educate and guide them patiently, correct their mistakes in time and help them grow better.

Give children more encouragement and support.

Encouragement is an important driving force for children's growth. We should give more encouragement and support to children when they make mistakes. When they do the right thing, we should praise them in time and let them know that their behavior is worthy of recognition. In this way, children will be more confident about their future life and know how to deal with various problems correctly.