Here are 36 strategies to educate children, hoping to help teachers and parents cultivate optimistic, confident, positive and brave children through better educational methods. Come and collect and study together!
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0 1, example meter: Set an example. Children are the mirror of their parents. Pay attention to subtle words and deeds in front of children. Teaching by example is better than teaching by words, and parents should be good examples for their children to learn.
02. Encouragement plan: Encourage him to challenge difficult children. It's easy to give up trying because of some setbacks. At this time, parents' encouragement is their courage and motivation to move forward. Parents should help their children find problems, correct shortcomings and encourage them to grow up in setbacks.
03. Reward a good plan: Reward is more effective than punishment to educate children, and reward is often more effective than punishment. Instead of punishing mistakes, it is better to reward the right ones, which can not only avoid hurting children, but also urge them to carry forward their advantages.
04. Strengthen the plan: A good habit is to praise the plan more. It means that if a person is satisfied with the result of his behavior, he wants to do it again. When children's positive behavior is recognized, they can gradually get rid of inferiority and stimulate self-confidence.
05, appreciation plan: help children find advantages When children can't see their own advantages, it is easy to cause inferiority, jealousy and other bad mentality. Parents should help their children see their own advantages, so as to like and appreciate themselves.
06. Encourage children to explore boldly. Brave and fearless people can often achieve outstanding achievements. Give children more opportunities to exercise and encourage them to try bravely and observe new things.
07. Aggressive plan: Use competitive spirit to stimulate fighting spirit When persuasion and preaching fail, parents may wish to use their children's competitive spirit, rebellious heart and even "jealousy" to appropriately "stimulate" and stimulate their fighting spirit.
08. Virtual plan: Always praise him as "great" and let the child find the feeling of being a good child, and he will become a good child. Parents should always tell their children "you are great", and this positive psychological suggestion will make him have a positive self-evaluation.
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09. Establish rules and regulations: Establish a good code of conduct. Children's self-control ability is poor, and parents can establish a set of behavior rules in advance. Let children try to judge and choose by themselves, learn to restrain behavior and cultivate self-control.
10, anti-micro-meter: Correct small problems in time For seemingly small problems such as bullying and laziness, parents must correct them in time to prevent small problems from developing into big problems.
1 1, tolerance: if you take the initiative to admit your mistake, you will not be investigated. If children have realized their mistakes, parents should not pursue them too much, be reasonable and forgive others. We should consciously guide children to take the initiative to make up for their mistakes, correct them and avoid making them again.
12, admonition plan: repeat offenders. If the same mistake appears again and again, parents must not tolerate it. We must effectively criticize him, so that he dare not have speculative psychology such as "will not be discovered".
13, prevention plan: tell him that not being the best defense is also an attack. Instead of dealing with the problem later, it is better to give the child a "vaccination" in advance and tell him what he can do and what he can't touch.
14. Punishment scheme: It can be comforting to let children know that they have made mistakes, but they must not be tolerated. Moderate punishment can make him understand the survival law of "clear reward and punishment"
15, indifference: don't care too much about him when he is willful. Willfulness is a common problem of many children, especially the only child. At this point, parents must make up their minds to "isolate" him, let him automatically restrain his bad temper and avoid arrogance because he doesn't get attention.
16, fire plan: After the conflict, if the parents are angry, the children's emotions will become more and more excited, and even they will do something radical because of impulse. Therefore, parents should first suppress their anger and let their children gradually realize that impulse can't solve the problem.
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17, stick plan: replacing preaching with guidance is one of the most disliked educational methods for children. It is best to give some guidance from the side, which will make children full of gratitude.
18, impact meter: Touching children with true feelings Education is not only indoctrination, persuasion, supervision, but also emotion. For example, telling a child a real and touching growth story will leave him with a deeper impression and inspiration.
19, audiometer: No matter how small a child feels, he will have his own ideas. Parents must take time to listen to him patiently and understand his thoughts and feelings, so as to deal with children's physical and mental changes and problems encountered in study and life in time.
20, make friends: when children's friends should learn to make friends with children, but also really equal, heart-to-heart good friends. Only in this way will they be willing to share their feelings and talk to you.
2 1, respect the plan: respect the children's ideas. The contradiction between parents and children is often because parents don't respect their children enough. Respect your children's ideas first, and then you can gain their trust and respect.
22. Equality: No privileges for children. If you want to overcome "self-centeredness", you must first start from home. Don't give children special status or privileges. Good things should be shared by the whole family.
23. Cooperate with lesson plans: spend more time with children, parents spend more time with children, participate in his life, entertainment and so on. It can not only enhance the parent-child relationship, but also help to discover the potential and characteristics of children.
24. Diversion plan: explain the opportunity to educate children. "Sparse" is better than "blocking". Create an open family environment and allow your child to have his own ideas and explanations, and he will be more willing to cooperate with you happily.
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25. Tolerance: Accept your child's shortcomings. Your child may not be smart enough and have many shortcomings, but parents can't laugh at him or dislike him. Tolerance of weaknesses can overcome inferiority and cover up shortcomings with advantages.
26, edification plan: more contact with good interests If children have good hobbies, they may wish to consciously let him contact this aspect and encourage and cultivate children's interests in the process of contact.
27. Inducer: Don't force children to learn. Almost every child will experience weariness of learning. Force can't solve the problem. We should induce him to be interested in learning content by increasing his interest in learning and appropriate rewards.
28. Burden reduction plan: Don't force parents not to impose their expectations on their children, let alone set a goal of "what must be done" for their children to grow up freely and happily, so that children can better play their potential.
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29. Training and frugality: Stop wasting is one of the common problems of children. In this regard, parents should rightfully stop and criticize, and help their children to develop the good habit of diligence and hard work from an early age.
30. Persuade reconciliation: Help children solve conflicts When children have conflicts with teachers and partners, parents should take the initiative to act as "peacemakers" to help both sides eliminate contradictions and misunderstandings and let children learn to understand others.
3 1, connivance plan: Don't stifle naughty nature. "Naughty bag" and "troublemaker" are often smart and eager to learn. It is a good opportunity to tap children's potential and creativity to indulge these behaviors properly within the scope of not violating principles.
32. Refrigeration meter: pour some cold water when you are complacent. Once the child is found to be conceited, parents should throw cold water on him in time so that the child can know himself correctly and objectively. Six independent articles
33. Play weak tricks: occasionally "ask for help" from your child. Today's children lack a sense of responsibility, often because their parents are too considerate. Parents should know how to ask their children for help occasionally, and you will find that they have become sensible "little adults"
34. Let go: Parents who let their children do everything by themselves can only raise canaries that can't fly out of the cage. Create some opportunities for children to try and solve problems, so that they can deal with problems in life independently.
35. Frustration plan: Children who have grown up through setbacks and hardships will be more competitive in survival. In order to cultivate children's psychological resilience, appropriate frustration education is essential.
36. Exercise plan: Experience life more consciously and let children experience some exercise, such as participating in military training and experiencing rural life. Children's will will be stronger and they will have an advantage in future competition.