In the past, the burden of education has been reduced for many years, but it does not seem to really reduce the pressure on students. It will become more and more intense. I have to admit that educational capital and institutional assistance from all walks of life have indeed aggravated the anxiety of many parents and strengthened their economic pressure. Many parents laugh at themselves for not having a second child. In fact, they usually can't bear the heavy pressure of culture and education, but this pressure of culture and education is mainly manifested in the considerable expenses such as make-up classes and off-campus training. Therefore, the initial intention of China's promulgation of the dual-drop system is to hope that you can really relieve the pressure of many students' autonomous learning, so that parents don't have to invest unnecessary expenses in extra-school cram schools.
In fact, parents can really return to their children's education and let their children's education return to their families. This is a happy thing for a real child to grow up! As we all know, if parenting education takes the wrong way, it will hurt not only children, but also parents themselves. In the past, we can hear or see that many parents are concerned about, for example, where the off-campus cram school is good and where the off-campus cram school can get extra points, instead of paying attention to how to build a good educational soft environment for children in daily life, so that children can grow better with limited resources and teaching resources!
Children can't attend after-school cram schools, which not only puts higher demands on classroom teaching in schools, but also puts higher demands on parents. As far as schools are concerned, schools will pay more attention to the quality of teaching classrooms than in the past, so as to ensure that children can carry out most of their learning goals well at school without the assistance of off-campus tutoring institutions. For parents, it also means that the key to children's education will really return to family education, and parents will play an important role that is evenly matched with school teachers.
It must be explained that what role parents play does not mean that parents should understand the actual classroom teaching like school teachers. The key lies in the correct guidance of children's theories. Even if parents are completely amateurs in education, they will at least know how to motivate their children. It should be said that parents and school teachers have different emphases on children's education. How to take the army as an example? School teachers are like military attaché s, mainly engaged in experts teaching children's courses and other related knowledge; Parents are like the regiment political commissar of the army. They mainly give positive guidance and encouragement to children and stimulate their learning motivation. Parents should follow their own good examples to promote their children's development! Parents should not do football offside in their children's education and take away what school teachers have to do.
In fact, children's education is a very high-precision, scientific and reasonable system software, and there is no room for ambiguity. Otherwise, the system will either "get stuck" or "crash". In general, the main battlefield of children's education should be at school, at home, not outside school. However, due to various reasons, many parents have made great mistakes in this respect and regard extracurricular cram schools as an indispensable treasure for their children. It is precisely because of this misunderstanding that many parents used to leave their children's education problems to school teachers and their children's academic achievements to off-campus cram schools, thinking that they could easily cultivate their children into adults by going their own way.
Then, if we can push our children's education to schools and teachers, and think that spending money on cram schools can do our children's courses well, or even ignore waiting for their development, we are unwilling to spend time and energy on our children, and our desire to shape our children into useful people will eventually fail.
Parents are children's first teachers, which is definitely not empty talk, but contains profound teaching principles and laws. What kind of culture and education are given to children in the family will create what kind of children. Better parenting education can naturally cultivate children with excellent conditions in all aspects; On the contrary, a good boy is likely to become a headache for his parents, problem children.