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What are the harmful ways of family education? How should parents avoid the pit?
At the congress, some representatives suggested that parents should be trained and required to hold relevant certificates. Only well-trained parents and qualified parents are qualified to educate their children. This view has also been recognized by many netizens. According to everyone's comments on the Internet, we can see that many children think that their parents are not qualified when they receive education. In the process of their education, family education made them suffer a lot and left a certain shadow in their hearts. Most children think that their parents should have the right way of education. Parents are inexperienced in the process of educating their children and often have some educational problems. Parents should understand this situation and correct some wrong educational methods in time.

Parents who refuse violence education are also parents for the first time, so there will inevitably be some problems when educating their children, but we must pay attention to the problem of violence education and never use violence against children. Many parents can easily bring some negative emotions in life and work to their families. If the child's words and deeds have some problems, or they are not what they want, they will beat and scold the child. For example, children have poor grades or love to lie. Most parents don't know how to educate their children, just beating and cursing blindly will leave a very deep shadow in their children's hearts, which is not conducive to their future growth and personality shaping. Therefore, parents must pay attention to the fact that violent education is absolutely impossible. You can't understand how deep a shadow your violence will leave on their children. Besides, violent education will also open the parent-child relationship.

To give children some respect, many parents are good-looking and have self-esteem, but parents ignore that children have more self-esteem than their parents. Most parents mistakenly think that their children don't know anything when educating them, so they don't respect their ideas and suggestions. For example, when children share some ideas with their parents, or interesting things happen in their lives, most parents do not show interest or criticize their children, which is not conducive to their sharing things. Sometimes children will be shy and unwilling to say hello when they meet strangers. In this process, many parents ignore their children's self-esteem and force their children to say hello to other parents, which is not conducive to the development of their personality. Many children are introverted, and under such long-term education, children will become more and more introverted.

Some parents like their children very much and buy them whatever they want. This kind of education method is also wrong, which is not conducive to the formation of a correct view of money. At the same time, children are full of curiosity about many things in the world when they grow up. Parents must answer their children's questions patiently and don't be perfunctory, because you will invisibly kill their curiosity and creativity.