Now most children are only children, and there are some problems in family education, so there are some bad tendencies in children. Such as: selfish and willful, free and loose, timid, aloof and indifferent, arrogant, poor self-care, poor self-control, unfocused, not serious about things, indifferent to things, lacking sympathy, refusing to help others, afraid to do homework, entangled with parents, impolite to meet guests, which has become the top priority of implementing quality education today.

Parents should attach great importance to the cultivation of children's following habits: the habit of going to work on time, the habit of working, the habit of putting things in order, the habit of being polite, and the habit of various postures. Don't think these are trivial things. If you don't pay attention to teaching, children won't understand. It is not easy to form a habit. Parents should teach, demonstrate and supervise. Start with a drip. Keep training. Take politeness as an example, we should train children to use polite language, forbid swearing, let them know how to respect their elders, let them sit down, pour tea and say hello. Let them know how to care for the weak and be willing to help their little friends. Let them know how to repay their parents' love, not to touch other people's things at will, not to disturb other people's activities, to share their things with others, not to lose their temper, and so on. In short, to cultivate children's good behavior habits, we should start from small things, which can be consolidated through training, and we should seriously correct the existing bad behavior habits. This requires our parents to have keen eyes, keen ears, narrow hearts, smart mouths and diligent hands. Teach by hand until there is a result.

It is important to cultivate children's good behavior habits. Here, we put special emphasis on psychological counseling. It is impossible to educate children well without understanding their psychology. Many times, many of our parents and comrades have good wishes, but the educational effect is not good. This is actually a question of whether education is done properly. Many parents have the following feelings: children are becoming more and more disobedient, children refuse to tell the truth to themselves, children always keep things from their parents now, and so on. Why on earth are these? After a little analysis, it is not difficult to see that children have psychological barriers because of improper parents' education. Therefore, psychological counseling should be highly valued in family education. To this end, parents must pay attention to the following three items:

First, establish a good trust relationship with children. Parents and children in China families are often unequal and undemocratic. In fact, the authority of parents is sometimes unreliable. To make your education for children successful, parents must communicate with their children psychologically, and trust is the most important thing. Good parents should always keep a low profile and high profile. As long as your posture is low, children's problems will naturally flow to you, you will have something to discuss, and you will be willing to talk to you if you have something to say. At the same time, your high posture, your understanding and tolerance will win the trust and admiration of children.

Second, don't care too much about children. It is always right to love children, but it is wrong to go too far. It is common for parents to spoil their children now, which also brings many psychological problems. Parents holding their children too tightly will suffocate them, and over-protection will bring them insecurity. Because the sense of security is based on being able to handle and deal with problems with your own efforts. The development of children's behavior habits depends on their own practice, and parents can't do it for them. Moreover, doing what you can and are willing to do for your child is the biggest blow to your child's enthusiasm.

Third, learn to respect children. Children also have self-esteem and need face. When educating children, parents should not reprimand them too much, and leave some face for their children. The educational effect will be better.