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What is the reason for the tense relationship between Chen Qiang and the Chinese teacher and the worsening performance?
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Chen Qiang, in Class 4, Grade 8, has an average academic record and is always active at ordinary times. Teacher Zhang saw me and my deskmate playing in a Chinese class. The teacher criticized him for not paying attention in class and disturbing the class order. Chen Qiang was unconvinced, because it was started by his deskmate. Teacher Zhang didn't criticize his deskmate, but criticized him. Chen Qiang thinks that Mr. Zhang is unfair to others, and prefers those students who are obedient and get good grades. However, Chen Qiang didn't explain more to Teacher Zhang at that time and afterwards, but he was dissatisfied. In the future, Chen Qiang became more and more unwilling to attend classes, chat with classmates and fiddle with classmates' things. His relationship with Mr. China is getting more and more tense, and his grades are getting worse.

(1) Chen Qiang has a tense relationship with his Chinese teacher. What are the reasons for his poor grades?

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(2) What should Chen Qiang do to change this situation?

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(1) Chen Qiang's consistent performance left a bad impression on the teacher; Chen Qiang did not clarify the facts in time; Chen Qiang's "prank" after the event deepened the misunderstanding between teachers and students; Teacher Zhang's evaluation is also a bit not objective.

(2) Take the initiative to explain to Mr. Zhang and dare to admit mistakes; Correct your mistakes, control yourself in class and reduce deliberate provocation; Learn to respect teachers; Study hard and improve your grades.

Teacher-student interaction:

This is an important part of school life. The relationship between teachers and students not only affects the quality of our study, but also affects our physical and mental development. Every student hopes to maintain a good teacher-student relationship with the teacher, get the teacher's care and encouragement, and get the motivation for progress.

The influence of good teacher-student relationship on our growth;

(1) is beneficial to physical and mental development;

(2) affect the learning quality;

③ It is beneficial for us to learn communication and master communication skills.

Characteristics of teachers' work:?

Teachers are the carriers of human civilization and shoulder the sacred responsibility of teaching and educating people. Teachers' contribution to human civilization deserves our respect. ?

Teachers are disseminators of human civilization and teachers. They teach us the truth of being human and help us master scientific and cultural knowledge and skills. Teachers are regarded as engineers of the human soul.

Education is the spiritual communication between people, and it is the growth and filling of people's spirit. Teachers play an irreplaceable role in our growth.

The teacher has a glittering heart like gold, and the teacher has a noble personality. Teacher's job: teaching and educating people?

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The biggest feature of teachers' work is to communicate with innocent students every day. While teachers impart knowledge to students, students' hobbies and temperament will also have a subtle influence on students.

Teachers shoulder the heavy responsibility of teaching and educating people, and almost all knowledge is passed on to students selflessly and without reservation.

(3) Teachers' work is a kind of special work and also a kind of creative work. ?

Traditional teacher-student relationship:

The unequal teacher-student relationship of "authority-obedience" has caused many obstacles to the communication between teachers and students. ?

New teacher-student relationship:?

① the improvement of teachers' requirements for students: in learning, teachers require students to study consciously and independently; In class activities, teachers let students exercise self-management and learn to be organizers of activities; In the exchange of ideas, teachers ask students to talk about ideas, reflect on themselves and be strict with themselves. ?

② Changes in students' requirements for teachers: I hope teachers can listen to students' opinions more; Give students more space to develop their imagination; Like more equal teacher-student relationship; I hope to get more respect, trust, help and understanding from teachers. ?

③ Treat teacher education correctly: respect and understand teachers; Actively assist and cooperate with teachers' work; Communicate with the teacher actively if you have any questions, and get the understanding, support and help from the teacher; Treat teachers' praise and criticism correctly, be not complacent when receiving praise, be not discouraged and complain when being criticized; Be considerate and tolerant of teachers, and put forward the negligence and deficiency in teachers' work in good faith. ?

New teacher-student relationship: equality, democracy, mutual respect and mutual help. The new relationship between teachers and students is based on democracy and equality. In this relationship, teachers and students have equal personalities, respect each other, learn from each other and teach each other. Teachers are our study partners, guides and participants, and are our friends.

Our growth can't be separated from teachers:?

The teacher took us to swim in the ocean of knowledge; ?

The teacher taught us how to be a man and how to do things; ?

(3) The teacher removes psychological barriers for us; ?

Teachers are our friends. They respect us, understand us and care about us. ?

Teachers are our role models, and their words and deeds will benefit us for life; ?

The teacher's work is arduous, and he has paid painstaking efforts and sweat for us.

Some misunderstandings in the communication between teachers and students;

1. The teacher's responsibility is to teach and educate people. They should educate us, so we don't need to respect them.

The teacher wronged me, which shows that he is biased against me. I don't want to listen to his class and talk to him anymore.

Learn to communicate and associate with teachers;

Teachers play a very important role in our growth. The relationship between teachers and students is also an important social relationship we are facing. Our educational activities are the joint activities of teachers and students. Only by learning to communicate with teachers can we ensure the normal progress of learning. This requires

1, let the teacher know.

① Speak actively in class. Ask the teacher in time if you have any questions. ③ Take an active part in group activities. ④ More direct contact with teachers. ?

2. Respect teachers in daily study and life:

Listen to the teacher with an open mind and strive to meet the teacher's requirements. ?

(2) Appreciate the teacher's care and education. ?

(3) When interacting with teachers, be modest, respectful and polite. ?

④ Care, understand and help teachers.

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(1) Respect teachers' labor; ?

2 be polite to the teacher; ?

③ Respect teachers' personality and maintain teachers' dignity; ?

④ Treat teachers' opinions and suggestions correctly; ?

⑤ Complete the tasks assigned by the teacher.

Handle the relationship with teachers;

① Active communication is the premise of all communication. Resolve misunderstandings and contradictions with teachers and enhance feelings with teachers. Everything starts with active communication. Communication produces understanding, and understanding produces trust. ?

Master the method of communicating with the teacher: look at the problem from the teacher's point of view. Treat teachers' praise and criticism correctly. Forgive the teacher's mistakes. ?

(3) Master the etiquette of communicating with the teacher: A is polite to the teacher, B pays attention to the occasion, and C does not lose his sense of proportion.

Education edition:?

① Objectively understand the characteristics of the relationship between teachers and students in junior high school, put yourself in a correct position, and consciously accept the guidance of teachers while pursuing independence. ?

② Correctly treat teachers' praise and criticism. ?

(3) Understand the advantages and advantages of teachers. ?

④ Understand and tolerate the teacher's shortcomings and faults.

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① Knowing the teacher, understanding is the bridge to build a good relationship. Understanding teachers can make the relationship between teachers and students more harmonious. ?

Let teachers know about you, express themselves in time and get to know each other, which is an important condition for smooth communication. ?

Respecting teachers is the basis of eliminating the barriers between teachers and enhancing mutual understanding between teachers and students. ?

Correctly treating teachers' praise and criticism is an important part of establishing a healthy and harmonious relationship between teachers and students.

Learn to communicate with teachers;

Respect teachers and learn from them with an open mind?

Understand the teacher and help the teacher solve the difficulties?

③ Treat the teacher's criticism correctly?

(4) Ask teachers modestly to promote teaching and learning.

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No matter what happens, you should talk frankly about your views in front of the teacher so that the teacher can know a true self. ?

(2) We should seize the opportunity to talk to the teacher about some problems. For example, if you have personal problems other than your own study, you must talk to the teacher or write a letter after class. ?

Don't force teachers to pay special attention to themselves. ?

(4) Learn to "treat coldly": face the teacher's praise and criticism with a peaceful attitude, and don't be annoyed by the teacher's criticism, nor be complacent with the teacher's praise. ?

⑤ Every teacher hopes that students can "shine on you is better than blue". Take the initiative to discuss the contents and methods of learning with the teacher. ?

If the teacher makes mistakes in the process of imparting knowledge, it is best to put them forward in a euphemistic way. ?

In the interaction with teachers, it is inevitable to encounter friction, which requires us to

1, learn to correctly handle conflicts between teachers;

(1) When misunderstood by the teacher or in conflict with the teacher, learn to think calmly, communicate frankly with the teacher in an appropriate way, and solve the contradiction in the right way (for example, explain the situation to the teacher according to the situation at that time; You can also express your thoughts in writing; Don't contradict the teacher regardless of the occasion; You can't ignore the teacher and talk about the teacher behind his back; Don't be jealous of the teacher; Can't take a negative attitude towards the teacher?

(2) When mistakes are found in teachers' work, they can and should be pointed out, which is also a sign of loving teachers, but they should be sincere and decent.

2. Rational response to the opposition, disputes and conflicts in the communication between teachers and students.

(1) Stop arguing, stay calm and let your emotions cool down. ?

2 reflect on yourself and find out your own reasons. ?

3 state the facts, let the teacher know the situation and get the teacher's understanding. ?

(4) Ask others to help analyze and find out the solution. ?

⑤ Look for opportunities, communicate sincerely with teachers and resolve conflicts.

Tips for giving advice to teachers:

1, seize the opportunity. Generally speaking, teachers should not interrupt when they concentrate on lectures or speeches, which will affect teachers' thinking, interfere with teaching progress and even affect other students' learning. You can wait for the teacher to finish a question, or after the lecture, and then find an opportunity to communicate with the teacher.

2. The tone is calm. When we give suggestions to teachers, we should exchange opinions in a discussion tone. We can't help but respect teachers and even make them lose face in front of students.

3. Be honest with each other. When making comments, you should objectively express your attitude, speak moderately, try to clarify your views and don't impose them on others.

4. The way is right. You can write your own opinions and thoughts into letters or notes and send them to your teachers. You can also express your worries and opinions through diaries and weekly notes.

Hope to adopt, O(∩_∩)O Thank you.