2. A normal child has the ability to judge right and wrong, integrity, happiness and a sense of social responsibility. He can withstand pressure and explore the world. He feels that his work is enjoyable and he will not indulge in anything casually. This is a normal child.
A real teacher is not only a person who constantly strives to make himself better, but also a person who can eliminate his inner obstacles. There are two ways to get rid of your inner obstacles. One is to fight against these bad temper and try to overcome it, which is what Confucius said: "self-denial is benevolence." This is the same as Montessori said, you should be able to control your bad temper. Second, we should restrain our bad temper through the correct concept of social environment.
When we educate children, we must treat them as adults. He has his personality, and we should respect his personality. We can't just deny all his feelings.
5. How can we help children build an independent and complete self-esteem system? That is, you must learn to respect him first. You let him know that his dignity is important. He is a person who can control his own dignity, so the sense of dignity is also something that children attach great importance to.
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Children's physical health and mental health: Children's games are a good exercise in themselves. You let the children play, which is an exercise in itself.
Some children are often scolded by their parents and are under great pressure. He will cause a fever, and he will lead to decreased immunity. The emergence of a large number of these physical diseases comes from psychological destruction.
7. When a child gives up his activities and depends on adults, the final result is that the child will be lazy when he grows up. I'm lazy because he doesn't feel responsible. He thinks all this should be related to my parents, and it should be given to me by my parents. That's why I'm lazy. Therefore, all kinds of injuries in adulthood are caused by childhood, so attachment is also a particularly bad psychological disease.
8. He always says that you help me do this and you help me do that. Everyone should be careful about this, so that children can learn to solve some problems by themselves, instead of letting them do everything through adults.
9. Every child has his own instinct to grow up.
Second, children will pay special attention to the external order.
The second is free choice, giving children many choices, and letting them choose what they are interested in according to their own needs.
The third is that children like the sense of order very much.
The fifth is inferiority complex. Inferiority comes from severe criticism. He won't have enough confidence. He feels that he has no strength to do all kinds of things, because he has been criticized and accused since he was a child.
10. All parents have a great mission. They are the only people who can and must save their children, because they have organized power in society and can take action in the practice of living together.