Probably because your wife is greatly influenced by traditional ideas, she thinks her son is more valuable than her daughter, and she thinks she is a hero after giving birth to her son. My brother is the eldest in the family, and my mother is also the most distressed son. She often says that her son is just better than her daughter. In fact, when mom is sick and in a bad mood, our daughter usually takes care of her and enlightens her. She usually doesn't tell her brother anything bad. Even though her daughters have done so much, it's not easy for her. She talks about her son all day long, which makes her feel chilling. I often think about this problem. I don't know if such a woman thinks it's not easy to be a woman, envious that men don't have to have children, take care of their families all the time, and don't have to pay so much for their own experiences at home, so it's easier to realize their value in society. Is such a woman just projecting her heart to contribute to her son? I think my daughter will be similar to myself in the future, so although I feel pity, I am even more reluctant to help my daughter change? Do you think that society is a patriarchal society, and it is a drop in the bucket to help your daughter change? It's better for my son to make contributions in the future.