In the growth of children, parents should guide their children not only to work hard, but also to try their best. Even if the result is not the best, as long as they work hard, they will be the best. Only by letting children jump and succeed through their own efforts can children experience the joy of success and establish self-confidence.

Parents should not reprimand their children too much when they make mistakes. First of all, they should educate their children to have the courage to bear mistakes, and then help them analyze where they are wrong, why they are wrong, what consequences they will have, and how to correct them in the future. Encourage your children, see their progress, affirm their achievements, and don't blindly criticize their efforts and failures. Build confidence in children. Self-confidence is a gradual accumulation process. Children should not be afraid to do something because it may fail, but should be willing to do something because it may succeed.

Because this is a step-by-step training process, we need to pay attention to this point all the time in the little things of life, in the games and in the study. Children need help and love in life. As parents, it is not a complete substitute, but a reasonable care and training. Let children know that self-esteem and self-confidence are built by themselves, not by others. In this way, they can cultivate their independent and sound personality.