Tiger mother education rule:
◆ Don't spend the night outside.
◆ Playmates are not allowed to attend the party.
◆ Campus performances are not allowed.
◆ Don't complain that you can't attend the campus performance.
◆ Don't watch TV or play computer games.
◆ Don't choose your favorite extracurricular activities without authorization.
◆ The academic performance of any subject is not allowed to be lower than "A"
◆ Don't fail in other subjects except physical education and drama, and get the first prize.
◆ It is forbidden to practice musical instruments other than piano and violin.
◆ It is not allowed to practice the piano or violin on a certain day.
These rules have a strong China characteristic, and children are strictly required to work hard according to the specified goals, and cannot relax and give up halfway. However, this series of bans was made by Chua Meier according to the situation of American schools, because the United States has more spare time and less homework. Therefore, it is different from the traditional helicopter education in our country, and it is a new education method combining Chinese and western. Besides, according to an interview with Chua Meier, she pointed out that readers in China misunderstood her ten inaccuracies. If her children are in China, she will stipulate that children should have fixed play time, so that they can have more time to develop other hobbies. Therefore, the focus of tiger mother education is to cultivate children's all-round development and independent personality and ability.
adaptability
Tiger mother education is not suitable for all children. For obedient children, this method has great potential. In other words, this educational method can make children who follow and implement this method well develop greatly.
On the other hand, if the child is very rebellious, this kind of education may have serious consequences, that is, the child is strongly rebellious and disobedient. If children rebel from childhood, they will cause certain psychological obstacles and distortions when they grow up, so this method is not suitable for all children.