Respect for children
Treating children's self-esteem correctly means respecting children. Be inspired and curious about children's problems, not too paternalistic.
Guide children correctly
Children who talk back are thoughtful and resourceful. Only by correctly guiding children can they become sound people as soon as possible.
Don't kill people with sticks.
To treat the child's back correctly, you can't kill him with a stick, which is not conducive to the child's development.