Educating children should also pay attention to step by step. Starting to beat and scold will make you afraid and have a deterrent effect, but it is not good for your child's psychological development to continue like this. When a child does something wrong, you should first reason with the child and remember a question. Don't always tell the child what you did wrong, but what you should do. Many times, children know that they have done something wrong, but they don't know how to correct it. Reasoning makes sense, and children listen to it. There is no need to beat and scold.

2. Let the children experience this taste.

If children always don't listen to adults, parents can also let their children "eat their own fruit" on the premise of ensuring safety and not having adverse consequences. Through their own practical experience, children will deeply understand how correct and important their parents' teaching is.

Parents should learn to communicate with their children equally.

When you put yourself in the position of an adult, you naturally don't understand the child's thoughts and subconsciously think that you are superior to the child. This kind of communication can't even be called communication, and it can't achieve the expected effect. So in life, you should learn to put down your posture, talk openly with your children and respect their opinions. "Do you think this is the right thing to do?" Don't underestimate children, children have their own steelyard in their hearts.

Xiong Haizi's characteristics:

1, lack of public order

Children's socialization is relatively low, so they often appear loudly in public and rummage around in other people's homes. When these behaviors happen, they will give us the feeling of "bear".

2. Parents' habitual compulsion

You may encounter such a situation when you visit a shopping mall or supermarket. Children will not leave in front of things, and even roll around, threatening their parents to buy them for themselves. This is actually the performance of Xiong Haizi.

3. Very disrespectful to parents

Some children are outside, maybe not many, but they are bullies at home. Maybe no matter what parents say, children don't listen and even start hitting their parents. This kind of performance is often more serious in intergenerational relations, especially for the elderly who love their children more, and the probability of being disrespected by their children will be higher.

4. You can't share it with others.

Children will go through a selfish stage, and it is difficult to actively share things, but parents only need to guide their children correctly and let them know how to share. Some children will cry and resist if others take his things as if they were killing him. This is actually the result of being spoiled by parents. Parents will stimulate children's selfishness, and children are too selfish to share.