Education is a slow art.
Education should follow the law of children's physical and mental development, education should be gradual, education should be carefully crafted, and utilitarian should be rejected.
Once upon a time, education became impetuous and utilitarian. In order to pursue the enrollment rate, schools do not hesitate to sacrifice students' health; The teacher strengthened the homework for the students' grades; Parents take their children to various training courses for their children's study. Children have lost the fun of learning, and more and more children are tired of learning.
As educators, we know that education is agriculture, not industry; We also know that every student is a flower, the flowering period is different, and the flowering time is different; We know how to teach students with different personalities and different foundations in accordance with their aptitude.
We are convinced that real education needs to "wait", even the acquisition of knowledge is a difficult, arduous and slow process; People's growth is more tortuous and difficult, has its own laws, and is not forced at all.
However, in practical work, we often ignore this point. We complain, we escape, and even we choose to give up the initial intention of pursuing a better education.
Sometimes there is no way for a person to learn more and learn better, and there is no way for him to form so-called "good habits" quickly.
In fact, "negativity" is our greatest enemy. No matter whether you are on the podium for the first time or in middle age, there will always be a difficult journey, but as long as we don't lose heart, don't admit defeat and don't give up, there will always be a glimmer of light in the endless night. Although it is very weak, as long as we pursue it hard, we will always see the light.
Although, we often can't make a proper judgment on our educational behavior, and we can't know exactly what a growing child needs, and how we can properly protect and help her.
So, insist, give up, fight ... really! The pace of progress is not easy at all. Poetry and distance are always out of reach, one difficulty is overcome, and the other comes quietly.
In this way, we struggled along the road of following a good education. One day, it suddenly dawned on us! During the journey, it seems that we can only naturally choose obedience, depression, resentment and anxiety ... an unspeakable pain haunts our hearts. "I have seen through the world, but I still love it", which should be the way for us to feel the world of education.
Yesterday, I left a message with the parents of excellent classes to express my feelings: I think it takes a lot of rulers to evaluate a child, and grades and rankings are just a ruler. The most important thing is to cultivate children's sense of rules, kindness, gratitude, optimism, positivity, wisdom, education and innovation. IQ is important, EQ is important, and entrepreneurship is more important. There is a peach blossom garden in my heart, the classroom is full of positive energy, the classroom is full of wisdom collision, the teachers and students are harmonious and friendly after class, and everyone is trying to be the best of themselves. Therefore, if you learn about your child's bad habits, or hear bad information that is not conducive to your child's growth, you must tell me at the first time. Don't think it has nothing to do with your children. We are a group and a team. Class style, study style and teaching style are the key factors for the growth of this team. Without an invincible team, there is no invincible power.
Every time I leave a message like this in a group, I always think twice and express my views as accurately as possible. Because I deeply understand that education is actually a process of finding and understanding each other. In short, everything is for children, everything is for children, and everything is for children.
In a word, education is a slow and subtle life process. As the saying goes, the change of education is extremely slow and subtle, which requires the sinking of life and "intensive cultivation and standardization"
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