1. Establish a good communication channel: keep an open, frank and respectful dialogue with children and listen to their thoughts and feelings. This can strengthen the parent-child relationship and make children more willing to listen to your advice.
2. Formulate clear rules and boundaries: formulate family rules to ensure that children understand the importance and consequences of these rules. At the same time, be consistent and don't change the rules frequently to avoid confusing children.
3. Give positive rewards and encouragement: When children behave well, giving affirmation and reward in time can enhance children's self-confidence and enthusiasm. At the same time, appropriate punishment should be given to help them realize the wrong consequences.
4. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility: let children undertake some housework or obligations, and let children learn to take responsibility and complete tasks independently. This can cultivate their self-discipline and sense of responsibility.
5. Provide a good example: As parents, you should set an example and be a role model for your children. Show positive behaviors and values so that children can learn correct behaviors from you.
6. Seek professional help: If the child's disobedience problem is serious and persistent, you can consider seeking the help of professional psychological counselors or educational experts. They can provide more specific advice and support.
In short, educating children requires patience and perseverance. By establishing good communication, formulating clear rules, giving rewards and encouragement, cultivating a sense of responsibility and providing an example, children can be helped to change their bad behaviors and become obedient and sensible children.