Parents should not always stare at their children's weaknesses, and compare their children's shortcomings with other children's strengths. When in contact with children, parents should try their best to find the advantages of children and encourage them to reduce their resistance to parents.

Step 2 be absorbed

Parents also came from the rebellious period of youth, but children are not obvious, so in the face of their inexplicable behavior, we might as well put ourselves in their shoes and think about why children are like this. With empathy, you will understand the child and find the crux of the problem.

3. Avoid talking about grades.

When communicating with children, parents should not always focus on learning, which will only make children feel pressure and doubt the motivation of parents to communicate. When communicating, parents can start with family affairs and stabilize their children's emotions before getting down to business.

Step 4 stabilize your mood

It is certainly irrational for parents to educate their children with emotions, which will lead to more resistance of children. Therefore, parents should not educate their children when they are impatient, irritable and not calm. After you calm down, you can communicate with your children.

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