Nowadays, with the progress of society, many people will realize the importance of education. First of all, they attach great importance to children's education. Maybe the children themselves don't realize that they are going to the training class, and their parents have already signed up many training classes for them. This is actually an over-education. So what's wrong with over-education?
First, over-education will only give children more depression.
Education is good, but over-education is really bad. Why? It is because the child is limited in the process of receiving education, and his knowledge is limited. If you let him learn Chinese, he may study hard. If you let him learn math, she will study hard.
But when you let him study math and Chinese, and you marry him many unnecessary subjects, then he will feel very headache and he will not understand the significance of this kind of education. In fact, over-education has a feeling of helping others.
It will make children feel great oppression and pressure. Nowadays, many children are under great pressure, because parents are always over-educating, putting a lot of things on their children. The euphemistic name of education is actually oppression.
Second, over-education is actually an excessive interference in children's lives.
Many parents know the importance of education, so it is actually a kind of pain for children to put their best education on them.
A child has his own life education, which is only a part of his life. Besides education, he also needs to accompany his friends, grow up and play, have his own personal space and get in touch with other things in the world. However, for educational purposes, parents always enroll their children in various training classes or cultivate their abilities.
Let education fill children's lives. In fact, I think this is often interfering with children's lives and preventing children from exploring on their own. This practice is actually very bad, so I don't want everyone to over-educate their children.
Third, over-educating children will only make them rebel.
It is right to educate children, but if it is excessive, it will only bring a strong sense of oppression to children, and a strong sense of oppression will prompt him to resist you. After a long time, there is nothing to say between children and parents.