1, guide children to learn to be calm: under any circumstances, children should learn to be calm in front of small things and be cold in front of big things. At all times and all over the world, all successful people never use their temper to solve things when they encounter things, but calm down, think seriously, and then solve problems calmly. For children, parents should guide their children to solve problems in a calm way from an early age. If your parents' cooking is not delicious or you don't like it, you can communicate with your parents calmly. At this time, parents must put down their bodies and communicate with their children on an equal footing. Only in this way can children gradually develop a calm mind to solve problems, instead of using the spleen to solve everything.

2. Guide children to learn to control: it is not the child's nature for children to lose their temper, but the concept that children have no control in their hearts. It is impossible to do everything by temperament in a person's life, and controlling emotions is one of the basic qualities that a person must possess. All children's bad habits are formed because children have not learned to control them, and so are their emotions. If they don't control it and let it develop, it is also a terrible concept. So parents should constantly guide their children to learn to control themselves.

3. Parents should set a good example for their children: in controlling emotions, the exemplary role of parents should not be underestimated. Parents should learn to control their emotions when dealing with their children's affairs, such as seeing their children's scores and their grades falling. It is difficult for parents who are easily angry with their children to cultivate a good character.

4. When the child doesn't listen to the parents' dissuasion or disobey orders, he can let go and let him hit a nail. When he is frustrated, he will naturally know why his parents won't let him do it. The sooner this treatment is completed, the better.