Moral quality is not only an integral part of perfect personality, but also a necessary condition for shaping perfect personality. Perfect personality is manifested in two aspects: facing self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance and self-improvement; Respect, love, care and help others. Noble sentiment, excellent quality, strong will and civilized behavior are all indispensable elements of a perfect personality. Only when a person has excellent moral quality can he be respected by others and realize the dignity of being a human being. So how to cultivate students' good moral quality in the period of children's family education?
First, educate children to set an example first. Confucius said: it is right but not ordered. I got up wrong, although I didn't listen.
This sentence of Confucius is about the important role of example. This sentence means that for educators, if you can set an example for the educated by yourself, they will be convinced. If you don't force them, they will do it consciously. If you are an educator, even if you force the educated to do it, they will not listen to you. This is the truth that teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. As the saying goes, like father, like son, like mother, like daughter. This is the same reason. Children are the shadows of parents, and parents are the mirrors of children.
To educate children well, we should set an example for them from their parents' words and deeds. What we are afraid of is not that their parents' culture is not high, but that their bad behavior will have a negative impact on their children. Even if parents have low academic qualifications, children will grow up healthily as long as they can create a good environment for their growth. On the other hand, if parents' culture is high, their parents' conduct is bad, and they are bad at dealing with others, it will also have a bad influence on their children's growth. Children will not have good moral character and will not be good at dealing with people.
M.S., a professor of linguistics at the University of Pittsburgh in Pennsylvania and the author of Nature Education, said: Children always imitate their parents, so parents with children should not use rude language even for livestock. Parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers. Children live with their parents from birth and are influenced by the words and deeds of their parents and family. Parents' behavior will directly affect their children's conduct. Family is a child's first enlightenment school. Parents should set an example and set an example in order to make their children moral.
Second, educate children to start from an early age.
When I was a child, I had a love for my parents, brothers and hometown partners. Only when I am an adult can I cultivate love for the people of my motherland. When I was a child, I grew up with a sense of responsibility in the game. Only when you grow up can you become a responsible social person. Persistence and infatuation in career work are not afraid of hitting a nail when you are young, but you may be brave enough to overcome difficulties when you grow up. Respect parents and elders from childhood, unite children, and be expected to have good moral cultivation and professional ethics when they grow up.
So we should send a signal to our children from the first day. For example, some children of six or seven months are very naughty and like to throw bottles after drinking milk. Listen to the sound of the bottle falling to the ground. Should we let him go, help him clean up, or scold him? The correct way is to take the bottle away when the child drinks the last sip of milk, talk to him or wash his face. In this way, the child gradually lost interest in losing the bottle. In other words, children should be taught what to do and what not to do from the first day. This also shows us that even children under one year old can be cultivated, otherwise it will be difficult to educate them when they grow up and it will be bad to be slaves to love.
Third, create a good family education environment.
The symbol of a good family moral environment is that the moral concepts and behaviors of family members conform to social norms. Family members are law-abiding, distinguish between right and wrong, honest and kind, civilized in language, decent in behavior, hardworking and simple, and have a sense of social responsibility. In such a family moral environment, children can become qualified social members with good moral concept and behavior, correct thinking and civilized behavior.
A child who lives in a democratic, equal and harmonious family will certainly be a child with a sound personality. Children who live in a family with a reading atmosphere will form the habit of loving reading and learning. If children are influenced by good family culture, they will certainly form elegant tastes.
If children live in a family that works hard and pursues career success, they will form the quality of striving for progress and constant pursuit. However, if the family environment is very bad, such as parents' low interest in life or vulgar, or listening to mahjong all day, it is impossible for children to have good personality and good study. Therefore, educating children is a process for parents to educate themselves. Children's behavior is often taught directly from a good environment or parents. Setting a correct example and creating a good family environment are the most reliable ways to cultivate children's health and good moral character.
Fourth, use holidays to educate children about morality.
For a person's life, 3-6 years old is the embryonic period for the formation of personality tendency and moral concept, and it is the golden period for cultivating good moral behavior. At present, most children are only children, so we should cultivate their unity, friendship and love of work in family education. We should seize the holiday to educate. On March 8th Women's Day, the love education of mothers, grandmothers and aunts was carried out, and "Learn from Lei Feng Day" trained children to learn from heroes, love heroes and be a good boy who helps others. "Labor Day" cultivates children's good qualities of loving labor and respecting the fruits of others' labor. The Mid-Autumn Festival is a day of reunion, which trains children to experience family harmony and round happiness. "Eleventh National Day" cultivates children's good moral quality of loving the motherland and hometown.
The process of educating children is also the process of parents' continuous growth. To educate children well, parents must constantly enrich and improve themselves with their children's growth. Otherwise, you can't keep up with the pace of children's growth, and the education of children is in a passive state, so you can't lead the way for children's growth, provide them with the best possible growth conditions, and let them get the best growth and development. You can't achieve the goal of giving your children the best family education. Character determines fate, and habit makes life. As long as we work together, on the road of cultivating children's good moral quality, what we pay today is hard work, and what we reap tomorrow is children's healthy and happy life.