2.？ It is better to plant trees upstream than to fight floods downstream. Today's problems in marriage, family and life are actually related to their respective adolescence, especially adolescence;
3.？ There is no standard for puppy love;
4.？ Four benefits of adolescent communication between boys and girls:
A contributes to health, physical and mental pleasure, and reduces stress; Yin and Yang magnetic field reaction-bring energy; Open communication-more sunshine, more positive, calm and decent, so as not to steal forbidden fruit underground; Make use of appropriate opportunities to organize children's activities; Public discharge is safer, collective activities are safer, and private discharge is more dangerous;
B helps to complete the second weaning period (after puberty) and prepare for the next love; The girl's special feelings for her father and the boy's special feelings for her mother; Parents should better guide the opposite sex to associate with the opposite sex of the same age; If there is Oedipus complex, homosexuality and love have problems in mate selection; Puppy love-it is more appropriate to practice early;
C can better alleviate inner loneliness, troubles and depression; Such as physical obstacles, study pressure, parental discord, teacher discrimination and sarcastic corporal punishment; Nowadays, parents can't get into their children's hearts, so it's difficult to be friends with their children. Children with difficulties are most eager for the attention and help of the opposite sex; Psychological assistance to students of the opposite sex; Put an end to the transformation of psychological distress-psychological problems-psychological diseases-psychologists;
Parents have two situations: playing mandarin ducks and being unsociable; Children's heterosexual communication is not the object;
D. Balance their intellectual development and improve their self-esteem and self-confidence;
5.？ Change ideas and methods; Guide children correctly and guide them to spend their youth;
6.？ Correctly face the interaction between children of the opposite sex, and don't let children regard cohabitation and marriage as exercise books in the future.