Although Shengjia Dafang and Fannie and Freddie both declined for a period of time because of their ancestors' "killing their wives", the situation is still different.
Grandpa Alexander, who lives in a big house, fell in love with a maiko and once wanted to divorce his wife and marry a maiko. Later, Yong's only daughter, Mrs. Sheng Er, came forward and arranged the old lady to go to the countryside, only to stop the generous farce.
From this point of view, the old lady's family may be a rich family in Qiyang, but it is far less than the Sheng family. Otherwise, how dare you be so bold as to divorce your first wife and marry a maiko?
Master Sheng is also a "wife", but the old lady Sheng is a miss Hou Fu, far more confident than the old man Sheng alone in Beijing. The two men beat each other to death because of "Concubine Room", and finally ended up in the old man's second year.
After Hualan was born, Shengjia Mansion just got rid of poverty, and the business was slowly on the road. Sheng Wei married Li's daughter.
Judging from the origins of two old ladies in Shengjia's big house and two rooms, as well as their son's career, the management of two rooms lags far behind the big house in both economy and education.
Therefore, in education, we will naturally invest more in children. After the second house is on the right track, the big house is just on the road, and efforts will be made in the middle, so the education of children will naturally be ignored. Coupled with the different origins of the two old ladies, the younger generation naturally differs even more.
Lan Shu has a weak temper. When she was in trouble, she didn't try to change her situation, but only forbeared and gave in. I hope Sun and his mother can find their conscience.
Hualan is different.
Before Hua Lan got married, Mrs. Sheng warned Hua Lan that women must use their brains to live, and they should not be bullied in a muddle, nor should they lose their temper, lose their temper and lose their temper entirely by heart.
Mrs. Sheng's good words benefited Hualan a lot.
In the first few years, Hualan was also very patient, but after Sister Hualan gained a foothold in her husband's family, she began to look for opportunities to fight back.
When her mother-in-law asked her to give her dowry to her sister-in-law, she was simply making a fuss. In the end, instead of paying the dowry, the mother-in-law scolded her father-in-law, and even the story of divorce with her wife was turned out.
My mother-in-law always said that Hualan had no son and scolded Hualan's daughter. Hualan went to her parents' house to help her. Finally, she successfully gave birth to a son by congratulating the old lady's daughter.
That's not all. The most unique thing is that Hualan, at the suggestion of Ming Lan, came forward by Yuan Wenshao's aunt and found a concubine for her father-in-law. After Yu Ji entered the door, her mother-in-law never had time to find fault with Hua Lan.
Without her mother-in-law in the middle, Hualan quickly sent several concubines to the room, and her feelings with Yuan Wenshao became more and more intimate and enviable.
Hualan is always looking for opportunities for herself, turning passivity into initiative, and finally "subduing" her mother-in-law.
Actually, Lan Shu didn't go to her parents' house to help when she had problems, but it's a pity that Lan Shu didn't have an effective mother to give her advice. Mother Li always makes her children happy with money. As a result, instead of solving the problem, she made the children look down on Lan Shu even more, thinking that Lan Shu had defiled his lofty, and her abuse became more Bangladeshi.
Hua Lan's husband's family belongs to the Earl of Yongchang, and her husband Yuan Wenshao was also personally selected by Shengji. Personality and looks are not bad in all aspects.
Sun Xiucai's family, before marrying Shulan, relied on her mother to repair others' oars. If it weren't for Lan Shu, mother and son would still be living on the poverty line, and there wouldn't be hordes of slaves today. Sun Xiucai became a scholar at the age of twelve. He is a famous local prodigy, but his character is obviously not so good.
Although Hualan was abused by her mother-in-law, Yuan Wenshao felt sorry for her. Although the room is full of concubines raised by my mother, my feelings for Hualan have never changed.
Sun Xiucai is different. Sun Xiucai thinks it's hard for her mother to support herself, and being a daughter-in-law should be more filial to her mother-in-law. Sun Xiucai does not think that the mother's harshness towards her daughter-in-law is wrong. On the contrary, she thinks Shulan is not virtuous enough to be a wife.